Sex

Ive never actually had sex so just need a few answers.

For anyone thats had alot of it,

How long does it last for you? How long does the lad actually last before he comes? Do girls be really disapointed if he comes pretty quickly?

Reply 1

Anonymous #2

Question 1 - Depends how turned on I am, can be like 2 minutes or half an hour.

Question 2 - Again depends on how turned on he is, unfortunately the majority of the time it is only like 5 minutes. :rolleyes:

Question 3 - Normally, yes :smile:

Reply 2

Anonymous #3

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Sex isn't something people use a stop watch for, generally. It's all subjective and one session isn't going to be the same as another - the same goes for people.... people have sex in different ways, it's not as easy as 'you do this for so many minutes, then you move this way and do that for this long'... it lasts however long you and your partner want it to last.

Reply 3

Louise88

Sex isn't something that you actually time, and it varies from person to person, everyone is different. To answer your question from a girls point of view...

How long does it last for you?
Sometimes it can take no time at all, other times my boyfriend and I take our time with sex. My boyfriend and I spend much more time on foreplay than sex, that's just how we do things I guess. I couldn't really give you an exact time though, I don't exactly watch the clock while having sex.

How long does the lad actually last before he comes?
That also depends on the circumstances and the man. There isn't a "right" amount of time to last, and everyone is different. I'll be honest, my boyfriend didn't last very long when we first started to have sex, he now lasts quite a long time meaning I can enjoy sex much more.

Do girls be really disapointed if he comes pretty quickly?
Sometimes i'm okay with it, and I feel completely satisfied. Other times I can be quite disappointed, and unsatisfied.

Reply 4

smellielli

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Anonymous

Question 1 - Depends how turned on I am, can be like 2 minutes or half an hour.

Question 2 - Again depends on how turned on he is, unfortunately the majority of the time it is only like 5 minutes. :rolleyes:

Question 3 - Normally, yes :smile:

Questions 1 & 2 = you needing a new BF. 5 mins...sheesh

Question 3 - Agree.

Reply 5

Goodkat

Question 1 - Depends how turned on I am, can be like 2 minutes or half an hour.

Question 2 - Again depends on how turned on he is, unfortunately the majority of the time it is only like 5 minutes.

I did chuckle a little at the 5 minutes bit I admit. To the OP, it's different for everyone really just generally the girl will be disappointed if you don't last long enough.

Reply 6

username94219

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Can there not big a general sex thread???? there has been sooo many sex threads lately.

OP - its all down to the individual, everyone is different. I guess some girls may be disappointed at first if the bloke doesn't last long but I suppose practice makes perfect!!!

Reply 7

sminky

It really depends on you individually, what mood you or your partner are in, what sort of things you are into, what turns you on, etc.

Sometime my bf and I go in for lots of foreplay (say a couple of hours) but the actual sex is quite quick (say 20 mins). On the other hand somedays we have little foreplay and have sex for a couple of hours. Totally random really.

I would probably say the more experienced you get the longer you can be.

Reply 8

Ducki

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Louise88

Sex isn't something that you actually time,

You dont? Does that make it wrong to have an excel spreadsheet showing my times, and hi/lo/average times?

use a stopwatch, good for endurance training :wink:

Giggity....

Reply 9

smellielli

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duckiciao

You dont? Does that make it wrong to have an excel spreadsheet showing my times, and hi/lo/average times?

use a stopwatch, good for endurance training :wink:

Giggity....

AHHHHHH...Quagmire escaped cartoons....

Reply 10

toth8

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Anonymous

Ive never actually had sex so just need a few answers.

For anyone thats had alot of it,

How long does it last for you? How long does the lad actually last before he comes? Do girls be really disapointed if he comes pretty quickly?

I'm not female but for me it depends how wet she is down there. For some reason I always come quicker when it's very wet and slippery.

Reply 11

alicejb

Question 1 - I don't time us (!) but always over an hour...some times all afternoon.....

Question 2 - He's got incredible control and can last hours....which can be fun....or not sometimes! He is always horny as well....most days we do it...often several times

Question 3 - At first no, but very quickly as we got more experienced it started to last longer so its never a question.

Reply 12

silverbolt

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Anonymous

1.How long does it last for you?
2. How long does the lad actually last before he comes?
3. Do girls be really disapointed if he comes pretty quickly?

1. from four minutes to three hours
2. read answer to question 1
3. as long as the gisl satisfied then no, if shes not then yes which is why teh guy should decide not to go to sleep and satisfy her other ways

at least from a guys point of view

Reply 13

Music_Enthusiast

Anonymous

Ive never actually had sex so just need a few answers.

For anyone thats had alot of it,

How long does it last for you? How long does the lad actually last before he comes? Do girls be really disapointed if he comes pretty quickly?

Just remember its not all about getting your beef inside her meat processing factory :cool:

Reply 14

Anonymous #4

If you're lucky (or unlucky) you'll get a guy who's goal is to make you come multiple times before he does, however when he starts asking you how many times and timing each session like it's some kind of sport it does get very anoying.

Reply 15

TopSortedMadForIt

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To all the guys claiming hours on end, do you mean, thats how long the whole process of 'sex' lasts, or thats how long one climax takes, with penetration throughout the whole of that time? Tbh, I didn't really think that (the seond definition) was possible, or desirable.

Reply 16

need_money

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Anonymous

If you're lucky (or unlucky) you'll get a guy who's goal is to make you come multiple times before he does, however when he starts asking you how many times and timing each session like it's some kind of sport it does get very anoying.

Haha! Agree with that! :biggrin:

Reply 17

Anonymous #5

Anonymous

Ive never actually had sex so just need a few answers.

For anyone thats had alot of it,

How long does it last for you? How long does the lad actually last before he comes? Do girls be really disapointed if he comes pretty quickly?

Please keep this anonymous I know too many people on here lol.

1. Not ages, usually between 5 and 15 minutes.

2. Isnt this the same question? To be honest it is usually a concentrated efforted by the guy to avoid coming before the girl, it is only polite... This is tough but apparently you can get specialised condoms and stuff. Dont worry though it isnt AS difficult as you'd think.

3. If by really you mean murderous and by disappointed you mean rage, then yes.

Reply 18

Sabriel

1. It usually lasts over an hour because my guy can go for ages.

2. Again, he goes for ageeees, which is always fun!

3. No I am not really disappointed, unless maybe if one of us wasn't in the mood and we had to stop.

Reply 19

Sabriel

Anonymous

If you're lucky (or unlucky) you'll get a guy who's goal is to make you come multiple times before he does, however when he starts asking you how many times and timing each session like it's some kind of sport it does get very anoying.

Call me a lucky bitch then! xD :wink:

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