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    (Original post by ThornsnRoses)
    my friend is 15 and has slept with 7....well she was 15...now i wonder how many it is!
    Maybe she was lying ...
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    (Original post by kieshaxxx)
    Maybe she was lying ...
    nah shes a slapper...shes not a friend friend of mine though.
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    (Original post by kieshaxxx)
    Maybe she was lying ...
    are you a bit jealous?

    j/k

    That sounds like a lot though. I'm just surprised a girl could reach that number of partners at her age. She must accept every offer she gets or goes up to guys and says "want to come back to my place for some fun?". I have a (female) friend who used to do that... :eek:
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    A few years ago I had a really close male friend who I adored and fancied like mad. We used to flirt a lot, and I'm sure we'd have got together if it wasn't for one thing: he told me he'd slept with more than 60 women. I convinced myself that he would just be using me, and that he'd never be comfortable in a relationship.

    Now I think I was just shocked, and worried he'd compare me to other women. He's now been in a relationship for three years and has a baby, so it goes to show you can't always judge someone by their past.
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    i have a friend who is just 19 and must have had at least 10 partners, several of those have just been one night stands, but she always gives the impression of having more than that. but people are suprised that she lost her virginity when she was 16 and was in a really serious relationship for 18 months (it ended about 6 months ago)... but then it only took her a week to sleep with her current bf.

    lou xxx
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    (Original post by lou p lou)
    i have a friend who is just 19 and must have had at least 10 partners, several of those have just been one night stands, but she always gives the impression of having more than that. but people are suprised that she lost her virginity when she was 16 and was in a really serious relationship for 18 months (it ended about 6 months ago)... but then it only took her a week to sleep with her current bf.

    lou xxx
    she doesn't sound like a cheap slapper though...
    A bit easy though, I'd say
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    I've often heard that seven is an ideal number for someone.

    Personally, I wouldn't care how many people a girl's slept with. If she's more experienced, then I might as well take the oppurtunity to learn something.
    Again, I'm guessing it's quality not quantity, if someone's had fifty one night stands, probably when they were drunk, I don't think they'll compare too well against someone who may have just slept with three people, but in a long term relationship.

    As for those who say they've slept with a lot of people, they might be lying, but I know of guys who've had thirty before they turn 16.
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    (Original post by SamTheMan)
    she doesn't sound like a cheap slapper though...
    A bit easy though, I'd say
    thing is she comes across as it- it's like she wants people to think she canb have any guy and does. most people think she has had a lot more than that, she's quite screwed up though and has serious self-confidence issues.

    lou xxx
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    (Original post by ThornsnRoses)
    my friend is 15 and has slept with 7....well she was 15...now i wonder how many it is!
    Hmmmm.....

    (Original post by ThornsnRoses)
    nah shes a slapper...shes not a friend friend of mine though.
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    (Original post by lou p lou)
    thing is she comes across as it- it's like she wants people to think she canb have any guy and does. most people think she has had a lot more than that, she's quite screwed up though and has serious self-confidence issues.

    lou xxx
    Is she good-looking?
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    (Original post by lou p lou)
    thing is she comes across as it- it's like she wants people to think she canb have any guy and does. most people think she has had a lot more than that, she's quite screwed up though and has serious self-confidence issues.

    lou xxx
    If she has to sleep with lots of strangers to feel good about herself, it sounds like a self-confidence issue to me. She could just be having fun though. Have you ever talked to her about why she does it?
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    (Original post by SamTheMan)
    are you a bit jealous?

    j/k

    Hehe! The cheek!

    And I'm not jealous in the slightest lol ...
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    (Original post by Trousers)
    A few years ago I had a really close male friend who I adored and fancied like mad. We used to flirt a lot, and I'm sure we'd have got together if it wasn't for one thing: he told me he'd slept with more than 60 women. I convinced myself that he would just be using me, and that he'd never be comfortable in a relationship.

    Now I think I was just shocked, and worried he'd compare me to other women. He's now been in a relationship for three years and has a baby, so it goes to show you can't always judge someone by their past.
    60?! Was he good-looking or just not fussy?
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    (Original post by kieshaxxx)
    Hehe! The cheek!
    Are you talking about your bum cheeks again? :eek:

    And I'm not jealous in the slightest lol ...
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    (Original post by SamTheMan)
    Are you talking about your bum cheeks again? :eek:
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    (Original post by lou p lou)
    thing is she comes across as it- it's like she wants people to think she canb have any guy and does. most people think she has had a lot more than that, she's quite screwed up though and has serious self-confidence issues.

    lou xxx
    I know a girl who acts in a very similar way. She's 18 and she's actually still a virgin, but from the way she acts you would never believe it. With any guy she meets, she flirts excessively and pretty much everything she says is filled with innuendo; she implies to them that she's easy and up for anything with anyone. She's so over the top and it gets quite annoying. Some guys do see through it and have told her she's "all talk", but most will refer to her as "a bit of a ****" after meeting her once, and she's quite happy about this and will encourage that view. She's also seriously screwed up in a lot of ways though.
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    (Original post by kieshaxxx)
    Well that was constructive.
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    (Original post by Bob666)
    Well that was constructive.
    As was that
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    (Original post by kieshaxxx)
    was that right one or left one?
 
 
 
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