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My girlfriend didn't tell me that she loves me yesterday... Does that mean she doesn' watch

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    I'm 23 and my girlfriend is 17. We're in a long distance relationship.

    She didn't tell me that she loved me one day, it made me very sad.
    She promised me that she would do it everyday.
    She didn't text me that she loved me yesterday...

    I'm worried and scared that she doesn't want to be with me anymore...
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    My girlfriend is on holiday at the moment and I know it's not quite the same as a long distance relationship however she hasn't been able to tell me it everyday either.

    Although this has made me have the same thought process, after talking to various people, although you may not have heard off of your significant other; that doesn't mean they don't love you. They may just be busy and it's always best to bare in mind that we all need a bit of time to ourselves no matter how much we want to be with/talk to somebody who we love so dearly.

    I can relate to yourself in how hard the times can be but I would just try to stay calm and rational and if you haven't heard off of her in a few days then maybe start trying to get in touch with her and all that kinda stuff.

    Hope this helps
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    (Original post by 311iswuv)
    I'm 23 and my girlfriend is 17. We're in a long distance relationship.

    She didn't tell me that she loved me one day, it made me very sad.
    She promised me that she would do it everyday.
    She didn't text me that she loved me yesterday...

    I'm worried and scared that she doesn't want to be with me anymore...
    Why do you feel the need for her to say it every day?
    Seems like you are very insecure for a 23 year old.
    Have you ever met her in person?
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    I say it to my fiancée most days but going a day without saying it doesn't mean there's anything to worry about, unless there's something else going on I wouldn't panic at all.
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    (Original post by 311iswuv)
    I'm 23 and my girlfriend is 17. We're in a long distance relationship.

    She didn't tell me that she loved me one day, it made me very sad.
    She promised me that she would do it everyday.
    She didn't text me that she loved me yesterday...

    I'm worried and scared that she doesn't want to be with me anymore...
    I'm in LDR too, but 2 guys... we barely say " love you " as we know it... maybe she doing the same. We did it on first 2 months then after just stopped because we already know it, 5 months on 2nd August
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    (Original post by 999tigger)
    Why do you feel the need for her to say it every day?
    Seems like you are very insecure for a 23 year old.
    Have you ever met her in person?
    I have/need to know that I'm loved... It makes me feel wanted.
    I know I'm insecure.
    No, we might not meet for a year or so.
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    As I said in my last thread my girlfriend and I are in a LDR.

    I text her that she's beautiful, that she's important and that I love her everyday.

    Sometimes when she texts me she just says "Hey."

    It makes me feel like I'm not important to her...

    Yesterday I texted her "Good morning, You have no idea how much I love you..."

    She replied with "Morning, baby."

    I don't understand why she does this...

    Other times I text her other romantic things and she replies to one thing but ignores the romantic thing I tell her...

    I've spoken to her about this and she's told me that she likes my affection and she doesn't ever want to lose my love...


    I don't know what to do... I feel like I can't be romantic to her as I may get ignored...
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    (Original post by 311iswuv)
    I have/need to know that I'm loved... It makes me feel wanted.
    I know I'm insecure.
    No, we might not meet for a year or so.
    Learn to appreciate and love yourself then you wont need to rely on others.
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    Have you told her what you want?
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    (Original post by 999tigger)
    Learn to appreciate and love yourself then you wont need to rely on others.
    I don't see how that'll help me, it won't make me feel wanted.
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    (Original post by 311iswuv)
    I don't see how that'll help me, it won't make me feel wanted.
    Becaise you wont feel the need or the insecurity that comes with it.
    You wont worry if they dont say it every day, becayse you will be secure and comfy enough to know they do. Over neediness can kill relationships.
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    Have you ever met her in person?

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    (Original post by Tiger Rag)
    Have you told her what you want?
    I told her about this as I said before. I told her what she ignored, she told me to forget it ever happened.
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    Have you ever met her in person?

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    No, we have not.
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    (Original post by 311iswuv)
    No, we have not.
    Does it even count as a relationship if you've never met? Have you at least Skype called?
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    (Original post by 311iswuv)
    I'm 23 and my girlfriend is 17.

    Bruh.
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    (Original post by lucabrasi98)
    Does it even count as a relationship if you've never met? Have you at least Skype called?
    I believe we are with each other. We've spoken on Skype 3 three times. We've also spoken on the phone twice,
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    Just because she doesn't say things doesn't mean she doesn't feel them.


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    (Original post by 999tigger)
    Becaise you wont feel the need or the insecurity that comes with it.
    You wont worry if they dont say it every day, becayse you will be secure and comfy enough to know they do. Over neediness can kill relationships.
    Being told that I'm loved makes me happy.
    I know that she loves me but I still want to be told.
    I know that neediness can ruin what we have.

    (Original post by lucabrasi98)
    Bruh.
    What?
 
 
 
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