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    so i am a 14 year old girl. i have a girlfriend and we have been together for a month. recently we have been making out intensely and giving each other sickies. she will kiss my boobs and place her hand on my inner thigh. it feels so good and i do the same to her, but the next morning i feel so guilty. i feel like im a slut. is it ok to be intensely making out at 14 years old? and is it ok to be doing this after one month? i feel so confused about why im feeling guilty. please help. sincerely, Gabby
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    I guess you've realised your limits. I won't patronise you because you know what you are doing, but I'd advise you not to take it too far or do anything you are not ready or feel comfortable to do yet. Perhaps, you should express your feelings to your girlfriend and ask her if you could slow down a bit. Don't listen to anyone putting you down, you are your own person, but be responsible and you'll be fine
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    Go and do your homework. God dammit child, you are only 14 years old.
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    back when i was 14 i was 15

    kids these days
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    (Original post by frankielogue)
    It’s honestly fine. To be perfectly honest, I’m 13 and I’ve sent and received explicit pictures, and a year 7 in my school did her 2nd cousins! You’re fine, honestly.
    My God. Are you having a laugh? Just because a 12 year old has already engaged in such activities does not justify someone else's situation. Do you have any standards?
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    (Original post by Jazzy97)
    I guess you've realised your limits. I won't patronise you because you know what you are doing, but I'd advise you not to take it too far or do anything you are not ready or feel comfortable to do yet. Perhaps, you should express your feelings to your girlfriend and ask her if you could slow down a bit. Don't listen to anyone putting you down, you are your own person, but be responsible and you'll be fine
    i did ask her like a week ago, it did and then i could not keep it slow. we have talked about our limits and sex is not in the nearby future
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    wait when you say she places her hand on your inner thigh is that the posh way of saying she fists you? normally I would say is inappropriate to do at the age of 14 wth OTHER people but since the school holidays I've been very horny.
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    Go read a Bible my child, there is still hope for you.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    wait when you say she places her hand on your inner thigh is that the posh way of saying she fists you? normally I would say is inappropriate to do at the age of 14 wth OTHER people but since the school holidays I've been very horny.
    no lol she just places her hand on my inner thigh when we are making out
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    My God. Are you having a laugh? Just because a 12 year old has already engaged in such activities does not justify someone else's situation. Do you have any standards?
    I’m just saying that others have gone far worse so she isn’t a slut etc.
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    (Original post by Arkasia)
    Go read a Bible my child, there is still hope for you.
    im jewish
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    (Original post by gabby51)
    im jewish
    Buy the New Testament DLC, it's a worthwhile expansion.
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    When I was 14 I was playing Runescape and trying to be tough on MSN
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    (Original post by Arkasia)
    Buy the New Testament DLC, it's a worthwhile expansion.
    i came on here for advice about my relationship, not my religion
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    (Original post by UWS)
    When I was 14 I was playing Runescape and trying to be tough on MSN
    so does that make me a slut/
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    (Original post by gabby51)
    i did ask her like a week ago, it did and then i could not keep it slow. we have talked about our limits and sex is not in the nearby future
    I guess you are at the age of experimentation. Just have fun, if you have limits than thats alright. So long as you are being safe I don't see what the problem is tbh. Just keep your boundaries, it doesn't make you a slut. It makes you a responsible girl with barriers. Keep an eye on your studies though. Work hard/Play hard right?
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    (Original post by gabby51)
    i came on here for advice about my relationship, not my religion
    And yet you got both. That's a good deal, don't you think?

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    so does that make me a slut/
    Depends, what combat level is your Runescape character?
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    (Original post by Jazzy97)
    I guess you are at the age of experimentation. Just have fun, if you have limits than thats alright. So long as you are being safe I don't see what the problem is tbh. Just keep your boundaries.
    ok thank you so much for your help
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    (Original post by gabby51)
    i came on here for advice about my relationship, not my religion
    welcome to tsr
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    (Original post by frankielogue)
    It’s honestly fine. To be perfectly honest, I’m 13 and I’ve sent and received explicit pictures, and a year 7 in my school did her 2nd cousins! You’re fine, honestly.
    I'd be very wary about receiving explicit pictures from people your age, it counts as child pornography.
    Idk if you can be prosecuted, but if you can and one of those kids changes their mind and reports you or a parent finds out, you could end up seriously screwed
 
 
 
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