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Is it wrong to look?

Is anyone in a relationship but feels guilty for just looking at other girls or guys?

I do all the time, and my gf knows, and says it's fine but I still feel guilty. Is it normal? When is too far?

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Reply 1

ForeverIsMyName

1) Yes it's fine.
2) Look, don't touch.

Reply 2

TheRandomer

3) people are more likely to respond if you keep your font small :]

Reply 3

loopymeg

My boyfriend can look as much as he likes, I really don't care. He's just not allowed to touch :p:

Reply 4

Ducki

It doesnt matter where you get your appetite from, as long as you go home for your dinner.

'nuff said

Reply 5

Kate.

NICE BIG RED FONT YOU HAVE THERE IN CASE WE ALL HAPPEN TO BE HALF BLIND.

Anyway, looking is fine. Perving on people when you're with your boyfriend/girlfriend generally isn't. Touching definitely isn't.

Reply 6

Dionysus

I don't think there's a man on earth who just ignores it when someone hot walks in.

Reply 7

Lucy May

Its a natural thing to look
People do it without noticing, at least i do
My bf's caught me doing it even when i didnt realise i was :P
Told me off, he doesnt like it, spose it cant be v good for self esteem etc
But it's not like your going to jump into bed with them
I know he must do it too, as long as its not obviously infront of me i dont care tbh :smile:

Reply 8

username94219

And for those who cant see/read red - brilliant!!!!!!

*Just to state, I can read red but my friend was unable to read red and green. So might be a good idea to change your wonderful bold, bright message so your not disadvantaing anyone who maybe cant see/read red.*

Reply 9

need_money

I really want to say it is wrong but I know deep down it isn't really. Men are men, they actually cannot stop themselves from looking at good-looking women :rolleyes:

. My bf does it and comments a lot on how nice looking girls are on TV and I must admit it does bother me but as long as they don't touch you can't really say much.

Reply 10

shinyhappy

Just because you're on a diet, it doesn't mean you can't look at the menu...
Acting on it though is a whole different ball game, obviously!

Reply 11

The Bishman

I think its ok to look, provide you don't act on....OMG MY EYES MY EYES KILL! KILL ME!!!!!

Reply 12

geordiebabehh

i dont have eyes for anyone else other than my boyfriend, he is the only person in the world to me that is gorgeous haha
not sure how he see's it,
tbh if he looks at other girls then theres not much i can do, i wud probably be a little upset that he done that but i know he loves me so tis ok lol

Reply 13

Xx Tomásíona - Mháire xX

Garret

Is anyone in a relationship but feels guilty for just looking at other girls or guys?

I do all the time, and my gf knows, and says it's fine but I still feel guilty. Is it normal? When is too far?

Tone down the writing :wink:

Secondly, you can window shop. Everyone window shops. However don't go any further, you don't want to risk your relationship and don't tell your girlfriend that you're looking at other girls.

Reply 14

arminvanpite

duckiciao

It doesnt matter where you get your appetite from, as long as you go home for your dinner.

'nuff said

Oh, well said.

Reply 15

g2da3

ForeverIsMyName

1) Yes it's fine.
2) Look, don't touch.

he said all in one :biggrin:

Reply 16

Fishfinger Sandwich

There's nothing wrong with looking.
As long as that's all you do...

Reply 17

Agamemnon

Garret

Is anyone in a relationship but feels guilty for just looking at other girls or guys?

I do all the time, and my gf knows, and says it's fine but I still feel guilty. Is it normal? When is too far?