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    Today a girl text me, we haven't seen each other in a while.*

    She said "let's do something together"*
    I didn't have my phone on me.

    One hour later "can I call you" she then calls me.

    I just text her " I'm free Tuesday"

    She then says "I'm busy that day"

    Then nothing, no offer of another day.

    Does she want me to chase her or something? *
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    Really depends on how well you know each other and if you have been out together on dates before. Can't really tell from the info given what level you know her.*
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Today a girl text me, we haven't seen each other in a while.*

    She said "let's do something together"*
    I didn't have my phone on me.

    One hour later "can I call you" she then calls me.

    I just text her " I'm free Tuesday"

    She then says "I'm busy that day"

    Then nothing, no offer of another day.

    Does she want me to chase her or something? *
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    Ask her?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Today a girl text me, we haven't seen each other in a while.*

    She said "let's do something together"*
    I didn't have my phone on me.

    One hour later "can I call you" she then calls me.

    I just text her " I'm free Tuesday"

    She then says "I'm busy that day"

    Then nothing, no offer of another day.

    Does she want me to chase her or something? *
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    She wants you to take the lead and set up a date, it really can't get more obvious with her stating she wants to do something with you.

    She declined, set up another day asap. Girls do that Idk why but role with it. Set up a day that suits you and let her agree with it. If she keeps flaking then get her to suggest. If she doesn't, leave it for a few days and try again.

    All you need to understand is that she wants you to set up a date with her, regardless of what, she just wants something. Good luck!

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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Today a girl text me, we haven't seen each other in a while.*

    She said "let's do something together"*
    I didn't have my phone on me.

    One hour later "can I call you" she then calls me.

    I just text her " I'm free Tuesday"

    She then says "I'm busy that day"

    Then nothing, no offer of another day.

    Does she want me to chase her or something? *
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    Could you give some more information on who this girl is perhaps?
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    Could you give some more information on who this girl is perhaps?
    what kind of information so you need to know?*
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    (Original post by Simonthegreat)
    Really depends on how well you know each other and if you have been out together on dates before. Can't really tell from the info given what level you know her.*
    I've been out with her before, we were quite close*
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    Well in that case, it sounds like she wants to go out with you again but wants you to do the chasing. If you do want to see her again, then suggest another day.*
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    I don't even see how she's playing hard to get/wanting him to chase

    She asked to meet up, he suggested a day, she said not that one. You're supposed to say "what about_____"

    Sounds like normal chat to me? She already asked
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    I would just suggest another day, or ask her what day she is free. If she can't tell you then you know she is playing games and not the one for you.
 
 
 
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