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    Hi everyone,

    So I am 21 and I just graduated from university. Through my time at uni I just kissed people and was too nervous to go further so I just kept to myself. My friend made me join tinder last October to put myself out there and I went on a few dates but nothing happened. This January i lost my virginity to a good friend of mine, however when I went back to uni there has been 1 one night stand who I'm friends with and then over the following months I had two sexual partners. Since it is now August. Is having slept with 4 people since January slutty of me? I haven't done any thing sexual in a while as at the moment I have no interest and feel I need to redeem myself. Any advice and opinions welcome please thank you.
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    What you do is your business and only yours! You certainly don't need to redeem yourself, you've done nothing wrong. You had a bit of fun and enjoyed yourself, that's all life's too short, don't regret anything!

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    Nothing wrong with it, as long as you're happy with it.
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    Given theres these lovely lasses in Magaluf etc. who blow dozens of people in a single night you're a saintly angel... Who cares what anyone else thinks any way
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    Are you ok with what you've done? If so, sorted!

    If you're not, then it's worth considering why - you haven't done anything 'wrong' and there really is no need to 'redeem' yourself. From another perspective, you have had four partners since age 16, or fewer than one per year...

    When your interest returns, you can act on it or not depending on how you feel.
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    You didn't done anything wrong. So don't be worried.
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    I wouldn't say 4 is slutty at all. Otherwise I'd be a bit of a hypocrite
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    If you spend your life thinking about how "slutty" you appear to other people (are you going to tell everyone the intimate details of your life?) then your life will be miserable.
 
 
 
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