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    Whenever a girl is nice to me and cares a little about me, I fall in love with her. It sucks because never has a girl liked me back and I don't think they will in the future either (I'm physically repulsive and nauseating).

    I don't know why I feel that way. I don't like it, it only hurts in the end.

    Is anyone else like that? how do I get over it? halp!
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    you act like this because you weren't loved in the past. that's the only explanation.
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    I wouldn't call it "falling in love", more like strong infatuation.

    Anyway, I used to be a bit like that. As soon as a girl showed me the slightest attention, bam! Crush. Fortunately not anymore, I grew up. I'm guessing you will as well!

    I bet you're not physically unattractive though!
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    (Original post by SpiritSharD)
    I wouldn't call it "falling in love", more like strong infatuation.

    Anyway, I used to be a bit like that. As soon as a girl showed me the slightest attention, bam! Crush. Fortunately not anymore, I grew up. I'm guessing you will as well!

    I bet you're not physically unattractive though!
    I tend to be like this as well. I speculate that it happens mainly to people who have never had a partner before.

    OP has to control their feelings, you can't fall for every girl because a lot of the time they won't feel the same. Not that quickly anyway. I suggest that you do keep trying to find a girl, then this habit will die out eventually
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    I know this all too well.

    I think you just need more female friends or interaction. (Assuming a lack thereof is the cause, or maybe something in the past has just screwed up how you interact with people, including girls, which gets slightly better the more you practice). And for the record you don't fall in love with them, you're just infatuated, and you start to wonder whether you actually like them or if you're latching on to just about anyone.
 
 
 
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