Your First Love

Hey i thought I'd make a cheery thread, and ask you about YOUR first love, i'll tell u mine in a little while, just thought I'd spread some loooove around hehe
x

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Reply 1

Lucy May

My first love lasted for two years, he was controllong and possesive, he cheated on me then hit me.
First loves arent always cheery :frown:

Reply 2

tigerladie

i havent had a first love yet :frown:

Reply 3

Dinoceros

^ What she said :smile:

You might not get the cheery results you hoped for :smile:

Reply 4

SilverWings

Her name was Laura and it was absolutely perfect for what seemed like an eternity, but what was actually about 3 months, max. She left me for someone else and it's been about 4 years since the day we split up and we have never spoken since. At all. The end!!

Reply 5

lush_lalita

awww that rele sucks :frown:

, how long ago was this?

Reply 6

SilverWings

Like I said, about 4 years.

Reply 7

petrolhead

I'm with my first love and, for me, it's every bit, if not more 'cheery' than I could ever had expected.

Reply 8

lush_lalita

SilverWings

Like I said, about 4 years.

soz i meant lucy_may's one, i clicked reply, and there was like 5 other posts haha

Reply 9

Wind Guru

My first 'love' or serious relationship! was through being a vocalist in a funk band :smile:

I went out with the bassist for 11 months. The band split up, he moved to university and we argued constantly - plus I found out he was doing drugs.

Eventually he had a go at me for accidently trapping his hand (in a corkscrew ><) on new years eve so we had a fantastic new year start! :P Broke up 4 weeks later and now we hate eachother.

Reply 10

Lucy May

Ah right, just over a year ago :smile:

Im with my second boyfriend now, and it's so much more amazing than my first time, sort of put things in perspective when you've had a bad experience though i suppose.

Reply 11

Wind Guru

Lucy May

My first love lasted for two years, he was controllong and possesive, he cheated on me then hit me.
First loves arent always cheery :frown:

That's awful :frown:

*hugs* he really didn't deserve you, what a complete jerk.
My boyfriend was quite controlling to a sense - he wouldn't let me go out and spend time with my friends, but he was allowed to go out.

Reply 12

Lucy May

Cloudshy

That's awful :frown:

*hugs* he really didn't deserve you, what a complete jerk.
My boyfriend was quite controlling to a sense - he wouldn't let me go out and spend time with my friends, but he was allowed to go out.

yeah, mine was so controlling that i got cut of from everyone else, he even told me i couldnt go to my prom (i did in the end)
It's weird that you dont realise at the time though.

Reply 13

Wind Guru

That's crazy! I'm glad you went to the prom though :smile:

and I hope you had an amazing time hehe
It's good news you're with a new boyfriend and happy

I think bad experiences are the lessons of being stronger and more independant through relationships

Reply 14

Lucy May

Cloudshy

That's crazy! I'm glad you went to the prom though :smile:

and I hope you had an amazing time hehe
It's good news you're with a new boyfriend and happy

I think bad experiences are the lessons of being stronger and more independant through relationships

yeah i agree, you have to have a bad time to really appreciate a good time in my opinion, and everyone will at least have one bad relationship in their lives.

Reply 15

Jozeesh

Haha, my first 'love' was when i was about 3 - i stayed with him for 8 years and i don't think we said more than 2 words to each other the entire time. That's romance for you, kids.. :wink:

Reply 16

Louise88

My first love was some English guy, we were together for around two and a half years. I'm from Scotland so there was a fair bit of distance involved, he meant the world to me though, I wasn't going to let that get in the way of our relationship. Things were good for ages, in my eyes anyway, and he could do nothing wrong. He said the most wonderful things about me, and I fell for him completely.

He lied to me about a lot of things, he would watch girls on their webcams, he would send naked pictures of himself to girls, accept their rude pictures and the likes. If he was going to lie to me, he could have at least went out and got laid instead of doing it online. Needless to say, I was hurt and told him where to go.

We never split up in the end, he had this hold on me and made me believe that nobody else would want me, that nobody else would love me the way that he did. I fell for it, I believed him, therefore I stuck by him while he did such things. It was stupid, and I realise it could be a lot worse, but it wasn't nice.

I got bored of him, and the relationship. I couldn't forgive him for all the lies he told me, and other people. I met my current boyfriend, we were best friends, and I realised that I could do so much better than some guy who was quite willing to lie to me about everything, and not make the effort to see me. I got shot of him, and he turned on me. He called me all sorts, he called my a dirty whore, and every other name under the sun because I realised that I had been stupid.

He was my first love, as strange as that must sound. He treated me badly, and I was stupid to let him do it, but I got out of there and met someone amazing. I've got more than I could ever ask for, he has nothing, and nobody. The guy has no friends that aren't online, he never see's the light of day. I feel sorry for him, but i'll never forgive him.

Reply 17

lush_lalita

Jozeesh

Haha, my first 'love' was when i was about 3 - i stayed with him for 8 years and i don't think we said more than 2 words to each other the entire time. That's romance for you, kids.. :wink:

haha awww thts really cute lol, my first love was a friend, we never went out but we were pretty close friends, and at one poit we both liked each other bt nothin ever came of it. we got 2gether once tho, but tht triggered off this massive thing between us, because eventually people began to find out about it, and its all because of him, and just jokes about it, so atm im rele angry at him :mad: