Is it okay for me to get jealous?

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I really like this guy and he likes me but we haven't discussed it or anything. I get jealous because he gets a lot of female attention and girls flirt with him online and when he flirts back I just get sooo jealous. Is it okay for me to get jealous even though we're not together? Guys would you flirt with other girls if you're interested in a girl but she wasn't giving you much attention? Would you do this to make her jealous?
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I really like this guy and he likes me but we haven't discussed it or anything. I get jealous because he gets a lot of female attention and girls flirt with him online and when he flirts back I just get sooo jealous. Is it okay for me to get jealous even though we're not together? Guys would you flirt with other girls if you're interested in a girl but she wasn't giving you much attention? Would you do this to make her jealous?
It's natural to feel jealous in that situation. But to act on that would not be okay because you're not together in any way. Perhaps you should move towards going on a date or something.

I lose interest if I don't get much attention, but I can see flirting with other people rather publicly to induce jealousy, so there's the danger of getting the two things mixed up. I'm not entirely sure if you actually know he likes you though.
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It's natural to feel jealous in that situation. But to act on that would not be okay because you're not together in any way. Perhaps you should move towards going on a date or something.

I lose interest if I don't get much attention, but I can see flirting with other people rather publicly to induce jealousy, so there's the danger of getting the two things mixed up. I'm not entirely sure if you actually know he likes you though.
No I would never act upon it but I just feel jealous. I'm scared to initiate anything. I know he likes because everyone can tell by the he acts and treats me also he stalks my social media
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I really like this guy and he likes me but we haven't discussed it or anything. I get jealous because he gets a lot of female attention and girls flirt with him online and when he flirts back I just get sooo jealous. Is it okay for me to get jealous even though we're not together? Guys would you flirt with other girls if you're interested in a girl but she wasn't giving you much attention? Would you do this to make her jealous?
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I really like this guy and he likes me but we haven't discussed it or anything. I get jealous because he gets a lot of female attention and girls flirt with him online and when he flirts back I just get sooo jealous. Is it okay for me to get jealous even though we're not together? Guys would you flirt with other girls if you're interested in a girl but she wasn't giving you much attention? Would you do this to make her jealous?
It's natural for you to feel jealous, but I don't think he can really be blamed since neither of you have committed to anything.


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No I would never act upon it but I just feel jealous. I'm scared to initiate anything. I know he likes because everyone can tell by the he acts and treats me also he stalks my social media
So you like him, he likes you, what the hell are you scared for? Though I would be scared if some girl stalked my social media...
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