The guy I had been seeing for a while at uni ended things because he didn't think the relationship would work with us barely being albe to see each other for 3 months over the summer break.
When the summer break ends, I've been thinking of asking him if he would like to start seeing each other again on a very casual basis.
My feelings for him are fading, and I miss regular sex and his friendship. To me it kinda makes sense.
What are people's opinions? Do you think he will agree?
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- Thread Starter
- 07-08-2016 19:09
- 07-08-2016 19:13
I don't think it's a good idea tbh. What will happen if you end up developing feelings again
- 07-08-2016 19:16
From my experience, the feelings just come back after a while. We then started another relationship which could be seen as a good thing, though most of the time it seems like this kind of things ends in more heartache than the sex is worth.
- 07-08-2016 19:22
I think you should go for it
- 07-08-2016 19:31
Depends how intense **** was in the first place.
If you never really 'fell in love' then I'd just go for it and enjoy the sex and companionship while y'all both wait for a replacement.
If one of you became super infatuated then I'd say nuh-uh.
- 07-08-2016 20:01
Seriously? Just because you miss the regular sex then it's ok to risk hurting a guy's feelings? Although I am inclined to think that the guy would most probably nod for the sake of sex.
- 07-08-2016 23:58
Don't do it. You'll only end up hurting.
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- 08-08-2016 00:02
Yeah sure, because it worked out so well in the end the first time, right?