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Asking if an ex would like to start seeing you again on a casual basis?

The guy I had been seeing for a while at uni ended things because he didn't think the relationship would work with us barely being albe to see each other for 3 months over the summer break.

When the summer break ends, I've been thinking of asking him if he would like to start seeing each other again on a very casual basis.

My feelings for him are fading, and I miss regular sex and his friendship. To me it kinda makes sense.

What are people's opinions? Do you think he will agree?

Reply 1

queen-bee

I don't think it's a good idea tbh. What will happen if you end up developing feelings again

Reply 2

Anonymous #2

From my experience, the feelings just come back after a while. We then started another relationship which could be seen as a good thing, though most of the time it seems like this kind of things ends in more heartache than the sex is worth.

Reply 3

Marium'1997

I think you should go for it

Reply 4

TorpidPhil

Depends how intense **** was in the first place.

If you never really 'fell in love' then I'd just go for it and enjoy the sex and companionship while y'all both wait for a replacement.

If one of you became super infatuated then I'd say nuh-uh.

Reply 5

Anonymous #3

Seriously? Just because you miss the regular sex then it's ok to risk hurting a guy's feelings? Although I am inclined to think that the guy would most probably nod for the sake of sex.