my mum is more sly than that lol she would say she was using her phone to do a text message and came across the messages by accident. I know my name wouldn't come into it. If I did confront my sister she would go mental and not speak to me for a long long time. She likes to bear grudges.
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good idea, what do you dial to hide your number? I don't want some paedophile having my home number to boot.
(hey did u see my post?)
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yeah I did. I would talk to her but she is the kind of person that would compleatly shut down and pretend to listen without actually hearing anything. She would more likely go into a strop and it wouldn't matter if I were talking to her because I loved her, she wouldn't see it that way. Maybe she would come round eventually but I don't really want to lose my sisters trust. I've never done anything for her to distrust me. I think it makes me so worried because when I was little I had a near run in with a paedo. Thank god nothing happened but I am still very protective over her
right I have come across a problem which I don't really know how to solve. I think that you fantastic late nighters may be able to help! My sister is 14 and chats online a lot. (not in chat rooms, on msn) Myself and my mum are ok about this, the computer is in a public place and she doesn't go online for long. I began to get suspicious when I saw her giving out her mobile number. Due to my suspicions I checked her phone. Basically she is having phone sex with a guy she doesn't know, she is 14 and something makes me believe (from the messages I read) that he is much older. I don't know what to do about this or how to bring it up. Any ideas? And was it wrong to snoop?
You had a right to snoop as you felt worried therefore you should talk to her.