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Lost without a relationship

ok, long story cut very short. i'm 18 and have been in relationships pretty much non-stop since i was about 15. i have recently split up with my girlfriend, but i have a problem. In the past, girls have always come to me, and i have never had to do any of this chatting up business. but for some reason, since my last split, iv felt that iv got to be the one who looks for a new gf. problem is, i seem to lose my bottle a lot. for example, when i was out clubbing, i saw this one girl quite a lot, i liked the look of her, and really wanted to go and chat to her and ask her number, but i simply didnt have the bottle.

advice please ?
Reply 1
xxxjase
ok, long story cut very short. i'm 18 and have been in relationships pretty much non-stop since i was about 15. i have recently split up with my girlfriend, but i have a problem. In the past, girls have always come to me, and i have never had to do any of this chatting up business. but for some reason, since my last split, iv felt that iv got to be the one who looks for a new gf. problem is, i seem to lose my bottle a lot. for example, when i was out clubbing, i saw this one girl quite a lot, i liked the look of her, and really wanted to go and chat to her and ask her number, but i simply didnt have the bottle.

advice please ?

Just wait until another one finds you >_>
Reply 2
What are you scared of?
Reply 3
Tufts
What are you scared of?


im not quite sure, but last night, i really wanted to go and speak 2 her, but for reason, i jsut couldnt. its happened before, maybe i'm scared of rejection i dont know
Stop looking so hard, maybe that is what is turning girls off. You might find if you stop looking you might find a girl.
Well I dont think theres any cure for being a pussy (like I am) honestly. We just have to hope that we stumble upon some bird by chance.
Reply 6
Just try to enjoy being single for now & see what comes up later.
Yeah, enjoy the single lifestyle and see what comes up mate, don't look too hard.
Reply 8
jaydoh
Yeah, enjoy the single lifestyle and see what comes up mate, don't look too hard.


but i don't want to. i want somebody to just be with
Reply 9
You can be with me if you let me touch you in a sadistic manner :smile: