like a guy

ok, so i like a guy whose not interested in going out with girls and really into computers.

wil he grow out of it and how do i get over him (ive liked him for about 3yrs and hung out with him a few times)?!?!?

Reply 1

LinMolko321

He doesn't sound like he'd be very entertaining to date, lol :P

Reply 2

username47781

I would find someone who loves a girl more than a computer.

Reply 3

Jsk

Yeah, go for someone who likes you back.

Reply 4

sophisticated

If you've really tried to show him that you're into him and he hasnt responded, then I would just give up :frown:

Isnt it annoying how most guys are so into computer games etc... lol :biggrin:

Reply 5

Ron Stoppable

sophisticated

Isnt it annoying how most guys are so into computer games etc... lol :biggrin:

Isn't it fascinating that you believe that? :wink:

Reply 6

jumpinglunch

sophisticated

If you've really tried to show him that you're into him and he hasnt responded, then I would just give up :frown:

Isnt it annoying how most guys are so into computer games etc... lol :biggrin:

Reasons:

Games don't play hard to get,and when they do, you just decrease the difficulty level.
Its perfectly acceptable to cheat in games.
When its game over,you just start again.

*starts relationship with a game*

Reply 7

sweetface.

sophisticated

Isnt it annoying how most guys are so into computer games etc... lol :biggrin:

It's not annoying to me, I love computer games I wouldn't mind if my guy was playing computer games all the time. Instead of being constantly with me all the time. I would just leave him to it, or I would join in. It all about giving the guy space to do his own things. I am really into computers too :smile:

Reply 8

Serendipity*

Ha, I have a very similar problem...anyway this guy, one of his best friends says that he never talks about girls :confused:

and I think I am one of the very few girls he can actually tolerate. No, he is not gay lol.
I know he is very serious about his grades, and wants to do well. He seems like the shy type who doesn't really share his feelings. Although he has a good number of friends, he doesn't make an effort to talk to them often, and rarely goes out. He did come to my birthday party 2 weeks ago though, but had to leave early...at least I know I'm his friend (phew).
Guys like these are tough codes to crack, shame we had to pick them i'm afraid :frown:

I just don't know how to get over him though...

Reply 9

warblade

forget him he's a geek. im joking but well yea do something so that he can see that u like him.. i mean noone can be indifferent to love so.. try!

cheers

Reply 10

.AJ.

how do you know for a fact that hes not into 'going out with girls' ??? :s-smilie:

if you really like him that much then give it a shot and go watch transformers (27th i think), ask him to go see it with you, then go to a half decent place for dinner or so (Nando's/Bella italia). Hes bound to say yes, no-one will turn down that movie!

games are fun and addictive, better that than smoking, right?!! D: