Question for the girls

call me shallow but i dont think i would go for someone who is smaller than me, but then again it depends on the guy really, if he is nice enough it doesnt really matter. can i ask, does it matter if the girl is taller??

For me yes, but then the girls taller than me are bordering on lanky - which I don't generally go for anyway so...

But its a bigger problem for guys - esp the stigma associated with v. short guys.

i suppose but if the guy feels comfortable enough with the girl then surley its all good??

It's odd, but I very rarely think of shorter guys in an overtly sexual way (unless he's dating one of my friends or something). I just can't imagine being attracted to a person that was a lot shorter than me. And even if he was the same height, I still can't because I actually see myself as being taller than I am, so the people I think of as being about the same height as me are at least 2 inches taller. So someone my height I'd think of as being about 2 inches shorter than me (if that makes any sense).

But I used to have a 6-6'1 as a minimum rule, and am currently seeing a guy who I'd consider to be 'short' - 5'11/6 so with all the other pluses it's one that can be overlooked. But not the extent that you're talking about.

I think the shortest I'd go is 5ft 8, simply because I'm 5ft 10 and a guy is gonna have to be tall to protect me Fortunately the bf is 6ft so all is well.

SHorter then you dosen't mean he won't be able to protect you. He could do weights and really beefed up.

Infact I notice lots of shorter men do weights. Maybe the main reason is so they can have better chance at meeting a female who might be taller than them. Or at least don't get the impression that they can't protect the female.