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Reply 1
Mine hasn't, so I don' have that problem :biggrin:
I was only with one guy before my boyfriend and that only lasted a week, so he hasn't got much to worry about there either.
Does that make us sad cases? Probably :p:
Uh I don't think much of it, I just get on with things. It's no big deal.
mine hasn't so like angelil it's not a problem. i did get a bit tetchy about girls he used to fancy early on in our relationship though :rolleyes:
Reply 4
Well im my boyfriends first serious relationship, so i dont really have anything to worry over, but i had a serious relationship before i was with him....i dont know whether it bothers him :s-smilie: ive never thought about it...but i am now. I think id be able to tell if he was anyway
legotraintrack
mine hasn't so like angelil it's not a problem. i did get a bit tetchy about girls he used to fancy early on in our relationship though :rolleyes:

same here! but once you get more into it you really get over that.

Honestly, i used to get pretty wound up by myself at thoughts of my girlfriend with her ex's but the best way is just to let it go. Cause i was acting like an arse and she didn't know what she'd done wrong. That was a couple of years back though. So yeah, you could probably tell if he was worried about it.
Angelil
Mine hasn't, so I don' have that problem :biggrin:
I was only with one guy before my boyfriend and that only lasted a week, so he hasn't got much to worry about there either.
Does that make us sad cases? Probably :p:


How cute is that.
Reply 7
Very odd.

The past is exactly that - over and done with. If he wanted to revisit it then he would and he wouldn't be with you.

To be honest I've never understood people who get worked up over exes. It's a bit bunny boiler-ish for me.
Reply 8
Nothing annoys me more than a girlfriend (or someone I'm after) probing about my ex's for more than just mere fleeting curiosity.
MattRD
Nothing annoys me more than a girlfriend (or someone I'm after) probing about my ex's for more than just mere fleeting curiosity.


Nothing except them talking about their ex's, for whatever reasons.
Reply 10
Ex's are just bad news - best ignored, better forgotten.
Shreerac27
Nothing except them talking about their ex's, for whatever reasons.

you not feel comfortable with that? If you're with someone you really love and trust (like i am now :biggrin: ) then it doesn't seem so bad
Reply 13
SmilerNuts
you not feel comfortable with that? If you're with someone you really love and trust (like i am now :biggrin: ) then it doesn't seem so bad


Mentioning them, alright - but making whole conversations about them? No thanks.
MattRD
Mentioning them, alright - but making whole conversations about them? No thanks.

I dunno, it can be quite interesting and make you think about different ways people approach relationships. Plus they're likely to complain so you can get tips on how to not upset them.
I didn't ever used to want to talk about any ex, ever but it can be almost liberating if you can have a mature, adult conversation about it
SmilerNuts
I dunno, it can be quite interesting and make you think about different ways people approach relationships. Plus they're likely to complain so you can get tips on how to not upset them.
I didn't ever used to want to talk about any ex, ever but it can be almost liberating if you can have a mature, adult conversation about it



yeh i agree x
Reply 16
SmilerNuts
I dunno, it can be quite interesting and make you think about different ways people approach relationships. Plus they're likely to complain so you can get tips on how to not upset them.
I didn't ever used to want to talk about any ex, ever but it can be almost liberating if you can have a mature, adult conversation about it


It's alright, as long as people just dont start to get obssessive.
Obsessive no, occassional chats about the past - good or bad - though, are perfectly healthy. And relationships do tend to help shape your past, at least to some extent
Reply 18
You have a point, but i generally try and live my life in the present , although there are a couple of things in the past which still rile me from time to time.

Too much living in the past is just plain unhealthy IMO.
Reply 19
i'm quite lucky with my boyfriend. he's only had one other girlfriend, and she was a cow, so he'll never go back to her, and i know he hated around 80% of the time he was with her. so yeah. i love my james <3 :biggrin::biggrin:

bothered me with my ex though. i didn't think i could trust him. and his girlfriend before me lived in canada.. lol!