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    Hi,I have a question. If you're chatting or meeting a new girl you're interested in, how much do you care about the "interest" from her? I mean... Do they often start texting you back or do you usually start a conversation or anything you?
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    Hi,I have a question. If you're chatting or meeting a new girl you're interested in, how much do you care about the "interest" from her? I mean... Do they often start texting you back or do you usually start a conversation or anything you?
    For me I gauge whether they're remotely interested or not. If there's nothing there or they're going for 1 sentence replies where they don't try to carry on a conversation but at the same time are polite enough to 'reply', then I'm out too.
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    For me I gauge whether they're remotely interested or not. If there's nothing there or they're going for 1 sentence replies where they don't try to carry on a conversation but at the same time are polite enough to 'reply', then I'm out too.
    So for you, its more important about content than who actually starts conversations?
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    For me I gauge whether they're remotely interested or not. If there's nothing there or they're going for 1 sentence replies where they don't try to carry on a conversation but at the same time are polite enough to 'reply', then I'm out too.
    So for you, its more about content than who actually starts the conversations?
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    **** it's not the talking part that's the problem it's knowing what to talk about.
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    It's important if she's interested so I know not to waste my time.

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    So for you, its more important about content than who actually starts conversations?
    I would not bother ranking these things. Both content and who starts it are important, as well as very slow response times. But this isn't something to get too bogged up in - personally I just decide, based on those things (but not looking too deeply) whether they're actually interested or not, which is important as you say.
 
 
 
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