Hard to get in relationship~

i am 21 now and i found out i am hard to get in relationship even i have a lot of boys surrounded me and i am very close to them.

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Anonymous #2

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i am 21 now and i found out i am hard to get in relationship even i have a lot of boys surrounded me and i am very close to them.

I am chubby and i was guessing this is one of the problem but there are some guys approached me in the club but i was wondering they just want to sleep with me~

I am so outgoing until i can get very close to boys but they just treated me as best friends and not anymore :confused:

it is a shame for me a 21 yrs old girl have not had a boy friend before and still a virgin. :frown:

anyone can advised me how to attract a guy into a relationship with me?

They won't all just want you for a shag. I think just don't treat them as potential boyfriends and get talking to as many different guys as possible, ask friends to introduce you etc. take things slowly and get to know them first, and who knows what might develop. I'm certainly no expert however.

I'm 20 and havent had a proper relationship either. It's annoying now in my group of friends they're all paired up with each other and I'm constantly left bored as the odd one out. Consequently, I now try to avoid being in that situation and don't meet up with them as often which is a shame. It's not for want of trying either. There's a girl from work I like I may try get talking to her and ask her out for a drink, but she'll probably have a boyfriend. I'm seriously considering going online to meet someone though... :frown:

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Anonymous #1

i not intend to treat them as my boyfriend and i just treat everyone as my normal fren but just feeling strange why i am still single and no one ask me to be their gf :wink:

..lol

dont you met any other girls maybe u will have a gf soon

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Anonymous #2

I meet other girls, they always end up copping off with one of my more outgoing mates instead. Then theres girls I've tried to invite out with me from work or whatever, they either seem to go off with someone else or leave really early lol. But Im just gonna keep at it meeting more people and going to parties etc. I am abit awkward to some extent (or should i say i wont just go with anyone unlike my mates) but beggars cant really be choosers.

If you really want to get with someone its guys who are usually more active not passive so just give whoever you like abit of encouragement

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username47781

20

Maybe don't look so hard?

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Anonymous #2

Who me? Hmm lately I'm of the opinion that he who dares wins. There's nothing lost in trying, and I don't really go about it in a desperate fashion anyway. It's not really a case of being rejected, just not doing anything about it/not being forward enough when the situation calls for it and missing the boat.

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Anonymous #2

Who me? Hmm lately I'm of the opinion that he who dares wins. There's nothing lost in trying, and I don't really go about it in a desperate fashion anyway. It's not really a case of being rejected, just not doing anything about it/not being forward enough when the situation calls for it and missing the boat.

Hard to get in relationship~

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