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How do you know when to make a move?

I always seem to miss out on moments when i could kiss a girl. It has always hapend to me. I am never sure as to whether i should make the move or wait for a sign from her that it is okay. Sometimes i feel as though i am in a moment where i can make a move but never get the courage to do so. The worse moment is when i realise after and from hearing from a friend that i should of and she was waiting for it.
Is there any way to tell when i might have a chance to. Or "tips" people can give....
It can get extreamly fustrating.
The moral of this story is just to never make a move, just in case you're wrong.
Eye contact, positive body language, subtle touching e.g. she touches your arm when talking to you etc.
These are typical signs really...its difficult to judge exactly in your situation...it depends on the type of person.
Reply 3
From the sounds of it, it seems like you know when the time is, yet haven’t built the courage to actually go in for it – this is probably where you have to focus your attention.
jack_sparrow
The moral of this story is just to never make a move, just in case you're wrong.


Yes, its probably better to just stop thinking about girls nad focus on other things like matchstick modeling.
At the time when you think it might be about right, pull away, get out your files and start negotiating an acceptable rate per kiss. Start off low because there WILL be bartering. Make sure you have confirmation of what kind of kiss it will be beforehand.

Perhaps take polaroids during for further record. Always keep your kissing receipts. For tax purposes.