Does she like me?

talking rubbish

I don't understand why her saying that you weren't her boyfriend (which was correct) shattered your confidence? :confused:

Reply 2

nicketh

Why were you having a cigarette you disgusting, filthy, selfish person?

Reply 3

ambiguous

just go for it mate, what have you got to loose? the worst that can happen is that you get rejected! :biggrin:

Reply 4

Firearm

She was telling the truth - she wasn't your boyfriend.

She could have even been hinting, esp if she made eye contact with you after saying that.

Stop being a wuss and call her, get out with her.

Reply 5

Tyler Durden

nicketh

Why were you having a cigarette you disgusting, filthy, selfish person?

Oh my god, shut up.

OP: So... it 'shattered your confidence' that she probably felt slightly awkward and corrected someone who assumed you were her boyfriend? Riiight. But the fact that she kept trying to hang out with you, grabbed your ass and all the rest means nothing? Stop being a wimp and just kiss her or something.

Reply 6

Sundous

people, if you've read his last sentence you'd see that he has a self-esteem problem with girls :/. So although it sounds a bit over the top that his confidence is shattered over absolutely nothing, it may look as if he was turned down in his eyes.

OP: Obviously, she likes you so just ask her out or something in that trend in a comforting way. As for your doings with girls, you shouldn't be worrying too much, take a risk once in a while, if you are constantly playing it on the safe side you will get nowhere and probably feel even worse about yourself.

Reply 7

pinkchampers

ILoveComplexNumbers

There's this girl I've liked for quite some time. When I say like, I don't quite know if I've ever liked anyone as much as her. I saw her for the first time in a couple of months tonight.

She came over to me initially. We started talking for a while, then I went off with my mates for a bit before she found me again to go for a cigarette. She was extremely physical towards me, always touching me, even grabbed my arse at one point lol. My mates were saying "shes all over you, if you cant get with her then you're gay".

As we were having a cigarette together this bloke came up to her and said if her boyfriend had a lighter. She laughed and said he's not my boyfriend (thinking I was her boyfriend).

Anyway after that my self confidence was shattered. I just didn't have the balls to go up to her and ask if she liked me.

I just don't know what to do. I quite like her friend too and I haven't built her up to this idol that I have with the girl I was talking about so I find it far easier to converse with her, but I can't try with both of them.

What the hell do I do? I can't believe I bumped into her tonight; I though I'd put her out of my mind and then this happens.

FWIW, I'm absolutely terrible with girls. I don't think I'm attractive at all and I've turned down so many girls that have came up to me because I though they were taking the piss.

She may well like you, or she maybe just a flirt.

flirt back a little then ask her straight out if she would like to go out on a date.

also flirting does not make a couple boy/girlfriend.

Reply 8

ILoveComplexNumbers

note to self: do not leave computer on this forum when drunken depressed friends are staying round :/

oh? :/

Aww.

She probably only laughed because she was a) trying to act cool or b) embarrassed, thus laughing it off.

Don't worry. It sounds like she liked you.