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    Just want some motivational advice on how people have avoided premarital sex? I mean I am at that stage in life where I have received offers to have it however I don't want it as I believe its wrong and also my faith doesn't allow it which I completely understand why.

    Nevertheless, I find it really hard to control and want to just get married... However, I can't afford to and have other commitments such as Uni.

    So what advice can you give?

    P.s I am a male. And only people who consider themselves religious to comment on here. and I'm on the NoFap thing so don't tell me that masturbation is the only way out.
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    is it your choice to abstain from sex before marriage or are you bound by religious belief i.e. when others offered you sex did you genuinely want to accept but had to say no?
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    You're not helping yourself. No sexual shenanigans, no fap, I mean.
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    (Original post by shawn_o1)
    is it your choice to abstain from sex before marriage or are you bound by religious belief i.e. when others offered you sex did you genuinely want to accept but had to say no?
    Yes it is my own choice... i just don't want to be sleeping with someone before marriage
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    (Original post by shawn_o1)
    is it your choice to abstain from sex before marriage or are you bound by religious belief i.e. when others offered you sex did you genuinely want to accept but had to say no?
    Yes it is my own choice... i just don't want to be sleeping with someone before marriage
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    It's not supposed to be easy, unless you're not attracted to anyone.
 
 
 
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