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Sorry to be corny on the title of this thread but I'm just a bit fed up at the moment. I graduated from university in England a month ago and my whole time at uni I never even as much dated anyone. I have never had a boyfriend and I see my friends all finding love and I can't talk about boyfriends to them. I've so much love to give to someone but nobody wants me. I've also got asked many times how am I still single but sure.. I see people on Facebook getting into relationships all of the time, and if people have broken up from their boyfriends for a while they always manage to find someone else while I'm still stuck. Help and advice please boooo
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(Original post by Anonymous)
Sorry to be corny on the title of this thread but I'm just a bit fed up at the moment. I graduated from university in England a month ago and my whole time at uni I never even as much dated anyone. I have never had a boyfriend and I see my friends all finding love and I can't talk about boyfriends to them. I've so much love to give to someone but nobody wants me. I've also got asked many times how am I still single but sure.. I see people on Facebook getting into relationships all of the time, and if people have broken up from their boyfriends for a while they always manage to find someone else while I'm still stuck. Help and advice please boooo
Do you ask guys out that you're interested in?
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I agree with the above poster, take the initiative and ask out guys you are interested in.

You could try online dating, speed dating, finding someone through your family or friends, or even asking them to find someone for you, you could try joining clubs or through work, daily commute.

I wish you the best of luck !
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Must resist urge... To post... Smart arse comment and huge number 1....

Ahhh couldn't do it, sorry.
1 <---- it's here!
In all seriousness though, it may feel like it but you're not alone. My top recommendation would be to try online dating sites, that's the best way to find guys who are in the same position. Otherwise, just talk to the people around you (perhaps at work?) and see what new friendships might lead to. You're still young ! Be patient and you will find your "one" or they will find you.
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(Original post by Smack)
Do you ask guys out that you're interested in?
(Original post by Analyst89)
I agree with the above poster, take the initiative and ask out guys you are interested in.

You could try online dating, speed dating, finding someone through your family or friends, or even asking them to find someone for you, you could try joining clubs or through work, daily commute.

I wish you the best of luck !
Agreed with these two. I also recommend online dating, as least as a side thing whilst you pursue your hobbies, interests etc and hopefully meet like-minded men that way.

Take the situation into your own hands, and you may find results.
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It is kind of hard to say why are you single from your post without knowing you as a person. But there are always general tips: like being more open, confident in yourself and also putting yourself out there. By this I mean participating in events/going to places and taking on the initiative to socialise to people. Don't search for a partner, search for a best friend!
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(Original post by Anonymous)
Sorry to be corny on the title of this thread but I'm just a bit fed up at the moment. I graduated from university in England a month ago and my whole time at uni I never even as much dated anyone. I have never had a boyfriend and I see my friends all finding love and I can't talk about boyfriends to them. I've so much love to give to someone but nobody wants me. I've also got asked many times how am I still single but sure.. I see people on Facebook getting into relationships all of the time, and if people have broken up from their boyfriends for a while they always manage to find someone else while I'm still stuck. Help and advice please boooo
it is true though like many people have said. It probably depends on how you go about it. when you start working professionally am sure you will find many guys around
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