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moving to relationship stage

Well basically, I met this girl at work (I'm 19 she's 24). It was clear that we liked each other and basically to cut a long story short we ended up kissing on a night out, and we've been texting eachother since.

Thing is though I want to know how to move it to the relationship stage I mean I'd ask her on a date but we've already established that we like eachother etc. and it just seems that dating is unorthodox in such a context. I know being 'together' is the next step but I just wondered how I should progress things lol.

help me tsr!
Reply 1
You still need to ask her out on a date my friend.

Take her for a meal and a few drink. Chat face to face, not through texts.

I would say go out on a few dates, maybe on the third tell her you think its going really well. For me your only dating someone untill your sleeping with them, then they are your partner and your in a relationship.
Just ask her out to see a movie or something, I imagine you do that with friends anyway, dating doesnt have to mean elaborate 5* meals and cocktail parties.

People who are 'together' go out on 'dates' anyway, I've always felt it was a bit informal than that, for me we were spending time together doing things we mutually enjoyed.

Pluck up the courage and ask her out, you have nothing to loose, and if you've both established you like each other then I would say you in with a good chance. Good luck :smile:
Reply 3
Movies are rubbish dates imo, you dont get 2 talk...

A meal then a movie can be good tho, followed by a walk home.

The one thing I will say about a movie is some back row action is always good :biggrin: