I'm posting as anonymous as both have accounts at TSR and don't want them to find out about this.
This is going to be a LONG post.
I started dating my current boyfriend about 11 months ago, but we had a history prior to us dating (we dated when we were really young, then we lost touch for a few years and met up again last summer).
I started taking to a new friend last summer as well and our FRIENDSHIP continued throughout the remainder of the year. However, now I have built up feelings for this new friend while still in a commited relationship with my current boyfriend. We talk on the phone, send text messages, exchange e-mails, meet for luch, and hang out constantly.
Even though I love my current boyfriend, whence I compare the two, I see greater advantages in the new friend, but realise that this may be because I have not dated him. Plus, it could also be that I'm viewing my friendship with him through rose-coloured glasses.
The new friend just told me that he'll stick around if I end my relationship with my current boyfriend...
I feel horrible about what I'm doing...but I'm stuck in jam.
Any advice would be welcome...any help at all.