When I left university last September there wasn't much going for me, I didn't know what to do so I decided to stay in my university town since I made friends there. This meant I had to rent a cheap room as before that I was in student halls where I met most of my friends at uni, most of them years below me. Thinking I might get a job there.
Quickly I got bored as some friends moved away, freends were there didn't include me going out if there was a event on. It annoyed as before I was the one who prepared everything, sorted out flat parties and included everyone. Yet nobody was doing the same for me. A girl that I've known for 2 years was one of my best friends, I met her at a party I was hosting, she would always come to for advice. She was very shy and socailly awkward at first and I helped her get settled in. I was tired of her attitude towards me. She would ask to come out, we go out to club and would ditch me without telling where shes going, I would text saying where are you? and she be like oh we're at home..like thanks for telling, me wondering around the club on my own thinking shes still there. When I with her and others I know they would just stand in a club and do nothing, it got so boring. When I have left early she doesn't even notice so I didn't seem the point.
So in the end I blocked all ways of her contacting me.because it was bugging me so much . I decided to pack up and leave the town for good and go back to my hometown. By the new year I applied for a job abroad that I'm currently doing now and loving it until next new year, met loads of new intresting people and quickly forgot about what has happened. Really what I should of done is left my uni town straight away but I never thought I'd be doing this.
Through the new friends I met I am going to some of their home countries then planning on going to explore on my own to a few different countries, some of which I will have rare opputunities in. I've mentioned it on my facebook and a few of my old uni friends I am still in contact with see it but only because I have as my facebook friends, not talking same way we use to, so the information gets back to the friend I blocked.
I do think about unblocking her though as I hear she wants to see what i'm doing but I feel its more of a stalker look what i'm doing rather than actaully caring and intrested what i'm doing. I think its only because I moved on so much that has noticed otherwise i don't think she would cared. Its going be ages until I arrive back in the UK, I don't want to get talked into seeing her then ditching me again or doing or ignore me again. As i'm really over it and don't know if I still trust her.
What do think I should do? Is worth getting back in touch with her or should I just continue ignoring her and carry on with my own life?
Should I unblock since I've moved on? watch
- Thread Starter
- 17-08-2016 22:42
- 17-08-2016 22:48
it's gone. forget it. she caused you so much hassle in the first place.
- 18-08-2016 11:32
who cares... you aren't going to be friends again so just get on with your life, block her or unblock her it really doesn't matter