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how to not scare him off!!

A guy that i've fancied for AGES recently started talking to me out of the blue (well sent me a random msg on facebook) he seems so nice and we get along really well, but hes so perfect! and im scared hes gonna realise how much i like him and get scared off... how can i keep things nonchalant and also progress them further? id really like him to be my boyfriend, but i dont know how to get there! (im really inexperienced with guys) x
Just treat him like a friend, joke with him etc and drop in the odd flirty comment. then he's comfortable around you and there is a suggestion of something more but not enough to make him feel like it's definite.
Just be yourself around him.
Don't say he's perfect or think it, because he isn't. Think of him as just another guy. Be confident without being overbearing and just start a convo in real life perhaps for starters.
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Just be yourself!
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Just be yourself and go with the flow, no ones perfect :wink:

Its only a message on facebook so dont get your mum to buy her wedding hat just yet :biggrin:

Just arrange to meet up one day take things slowly and they'll gradually progress into a relationship, theres no need to rush things.