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    A guy that i've fancied for AGES recently started talking to me out of the blue (well sent me a random msg on facebook) he seems so nice and we get along really well, but hes so perfect! and im scared hes gonna realise how much i like him and get scared off... how can i keep things nonchalant and also progress them further? id really like him to be my boyfriend, but i dont know how to get there! (im really inexperienced with guys) x

    Just treat him like a friend, joke with him etc and drop in the odd flirty comment. then he's comfortable around you and there is a suggestion of something more but not enough to make him feel like it's definite.
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    Just be yourself around him.
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    Don't say he's perfect or think it, because he isn't. Think of him as just another guy. Be confident without being overbearing and just start a convo in real life perhaps for starters.
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    Just be yourself and go with the flow, no ones perfect

    Its only a message on facebook so dont get your mum to buy her wedding hat just yet

    Just arrange to meet up one day take things slowly and they'll gradually progress into a relationship, theres no need to rush things.
 
 
 
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