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    I came back from Malaga yesterday and I feel depressed?
    To add to the story, I tried chatting up a girl to start a potential love friendship and failed.

    I approached her at the wrong time and place, and the fact I had to rush as it happened all too quick, had partial blame towards it.

    I was going to get her name and number, but at the time of the situation, though I knew how to, it did not go as planned.

    What actually happened:

    I greeted her with a slight smile on my face and politely apologised for the inconvenience I had caused her upon doing so and asked her if it ''Would it be possible if I could meet her down by the lobby''.

    She said, ''Why''?

    I said, ''because I want to meet you.''

    She said, ''Not right now (Which, in girl terms, means no.)


    I walked down with a gentle smile, but as soon as I left her sight I had sizzled out like a flame.

    I learnt from my mistake and know what to do next time, but when I look back at the way I approached her, it shuts up my life, to say 'I should have done it this way, not the way I had done it.

    What do I do now?

    Move on, find another?
    It cheers me up temporarily to say, 'At least I tried'', another girl is always likely to enter my life next time I go to malaga, which speaking in future terms, will happen.

    You'll dm @RK.fly on Instagram, I need your time and advice.
    No offence, but only Hindu and Sikh girls holla on IG.

    You absolutely embarrassed yourself (even on here) :facepalm:
    • Thread Starter

    **** Embarrassment, man's acting like he's never gone or felt **** like this.
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