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Reply 1
whats stopping you from doing it.
Most males won't approach a female, unless it's at a club for instance.
I only approach girls who give me an indication of a mutual attraction or a signal that they won't mind being approached.So that would mean quite alot of eye contact and maybe a smile.etc etc
Reply 4
Her 5 mates.
Reply 5
What would stop me from approaching an attractive female?

The fact that she is attractive, if I wanted to be rejected I would have applied to Cambridge.
Reply 6
guys need to be less scared of rejection!! most girls wont be mean, and if they are then who wants to talk to a bitchy one anyway...?!
Reply 7
A slap
Adthegreat
What would stop me from approaching an attractive female?

The fact that she is attractive, if I wanted to be rejected I would have applied to Cambridge.



Exactly. Attractive chicks would, logically, be hit on A LOT. But in real life the inner wuss of most guys is most prominent when he sees a hot babe. All the insecurities come up - fear of rejection - mainly, and he stands and watches for 3 hours without approaching. Unfortunately its only the drunk losers who approach hotties. (Or confident Don Juan's. But thats definitely the lesser case.)

If you're hot, then just go up to a man yourself and engage him in conversation. It probably doesn't seem right because men are 'supposed' to hit on chicks, but hey, im sure no man will mind a stunning hottie approaching them.
Meh,what has any guy got to lose by not approaching a girl,if you get 'rejected' so what? lol thats life,nothings ever easy.
Reply 10
Adthegreat
What would stop me from approaching an attractive female?

The fact that she is attractive, if I wanted to be rejected I would have applied to Cambridge.

LMAO!!

Fear of rejection is the primary reason. I would only approach a fit chick if and only if she looks like a girly one and would only say a no in a subtle manner. A typical girl who gets the attention and yet hardly gets approached by is the one who keeps the chin up and dresses all very fasionable in my opinion.
Reply 11
Knowing someone is already with someone else is also another factor which would stop a man approaching her
Reply 12
ginag123
guys need to be less scared of rejection!! most girls wont be mean, and if they are then who wants to talk to a bitchy one anyway...?!

Yea but that is what people fear, a bitchy reaction. Sure, then you wouldn't have liked them anyway, but a bitchy rejection is a kick in the balls.
Normally the restraining order.
Reply 14
ginag123
guys need to be less scared of rejection!! most girls wont be mean, and if they are then who wants to talk to a bitchy one anyway...?!


Exactly. Anyway most girls just say the 'i have a boyfriend' line :cool:
Reply 15
ive got a better one, why dont girls approach guys?
Reply 16
dh00001
ive got a better one, why dont girls approach guys?


Because thats just a tad wierd, and desperate.
Reply 17
why is it. why do you moan when we dont but refuse to do it yourself. how is it different
Reply 18
Its the way nature works.. courtship dances are almost always the male.

You gota prove yourself.
Reply 19
Firearm
Its the way nature works.. courtship dances are almost always the male.

You gota prove yourself.


haha **** of!