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    So i went on a date with this amazing girl and it was kind of a trip between cities, we explored the sites a little bit, so we stopped with the car several times during the day.

    The first time we met that day and wanted to get in the car, i opened the door for her, but when we stopped, i didn't, and also didn't do it after that at all when we wanted to get in again.

    I think the first move was good, she even commented on it positively, but do you think she expected me to do it after that every time? For me it would've been awkward, especially because as i mentioned, we stopped a lot of times.

    Ladies, what would you "expect" in a situation like this? Did i **** it up? I don't want to overanalyze things, but it's hard. Thanks!
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    (Original post by chris_mm)
    So i went on a date with this amazing girl and it was kind of a trip between cities, we explored the sites a little bit, so we stopped with the car several times during the day.

    The first time we met that day and wanted to get in the car, i opened the door for her, but when we stopped, i didn't, and also didn't do it after that at all when we wanted to get in again.

    I think the first move was good, she even commented on it positively, but do you think she expected me to do it after that every time? For me it would've been awkward, especially because as i mentioned, we stopped a lot of times.

    Ladies, what would you "expect" in a situation like this? Did i **** it up? I don't want to overanalyze things, but it's hard. Thanks!
    I wouldnt expect the door to be opened for me all the time, don't worry about it
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    Yeah me neither, i think it would just get annoying over time. Especially if you're doing it several times in a day & she would probably find it awkward also. But yeah dont worry about it at all.
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    Stop overthinking, once is enough. No need to try so hard to get her attention. Just go with the flow and enjoy your date!
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    Are you serious? Lol you're not a chauffeur.

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