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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I really don't know what to say to this, or to suggest. It sounds like you've been (and are still going through) a huge amount and I can see how it might feel as though there's no way out. Things can get better though, I know it's hard to believe right now but they can and I really hope they will. I'm struggling to think what you can do but as I see it you have an end point by getting away to go to university, whichever subject it's for. You have nine or ten months until your exams to do whatever you can towards that- it's horrible but as someone once said to me, when you're at rock bottom the only way is up. Lack of motivation is horrible but you can do it, make the most of any moments you might feel even slightly able to do something and hopefully over time these will become a bit more frequent and you'll feel like you're getting a bit closer until your end goal. Cross off the days until you can leave if you have to! You'll get there in the end.

    Other than that, I guess just try and remember you're not alone in all this. Going to your GP would be brilliant if you could but not sure you'd be able to, there might be some support you can get at school though which could be a bit more manageable. You can talk to the samaritans too (by phone or email, it's free now) and people online, that can make a huge difference. You're always welcome to PM me too- I'm lucky enough to have never been abused at all but I have experienced a lot of the same feelings as you for different reasons and I'm always happy to listen to anyone. Even just talking about something completely random can help a lot to feel more human and take your mind off things, TSR is good for that.

    Hope this doesn't come across in harsh in any way, it's not meant to at all! Really hope things work out for you whatever you decide to do.
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