Ok so a month ago my friend told me he liked me. I honestly hadn't looked at him as more than a friend before this. Since then we've spent alot more time together and we've been on one date so far. It was honestly a lovely day he was so sweet for the entire day and surprisingly there was no awkwardness. I am quite a shy person but for some reason I didn't feel uncomfortable with any of the public displays of affection - it was very unlike me.
I had a little accident on the date and he was very attentive and offered to carry me for a bit etc. At the end of the night he didn't want me to go home.
Overall we get on really well and I think he's quite cute now (he calls me cute every other day). We talk everyday without fail, I've seen a complete different side to him.
I honestly haven't thought to myself what will happen if it doesn't work out because I feel like we will probably still be able to be friends. I just kind of question alot of things with him. Like I'm not at all turned off by him, I've caught myself thinking about sex when I'm around him and all sorts. I'm just wondering if i really do like him because I don't feel butterflies like I did with other guys I've dated. I think about him alot but that could be down to the fact we talk all the time.
In the past he's asked out people i know too, so this has made me wonder if I'm possibly second best and if he would have chosen them over me given the opportunity.
I'm not sure if I'm overthinking this or not. How can i be sure? I feel like maybe i should give it some more time...