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what do you say right after first kiss? i never get it right!

hi,

im average/maybe even good at gettin till the first kiss, but after it finishes, i never know what to say!! i think i spoiled some good moments by just saying somethin stupid like:

- woah, how come this happened?

or:

- hmm... strawberries...

or my most reacently worse one:

- i think i need to go to the toilet!

i just go blank and dunno what to say... some suggestions please!!!!! :confused:

Reply 1

cpj1987

15

Try saying nothing, and waiting for the other person to speak. Much easier.

Reply 2

8urtay

I think after my first with my current gf i said;

'wow that was amazing' - or something similar and then just kinda hugged her for a while :redface:

- your first one aint too bad

- ooh the randomness :biggrin:

classic ice-breaker

- no comment...

Reply 3

Candy-Kills

OP

1

/QUOTE/ Try saying nothing, and waiting for the other person to speak. Much easier. /QUOTE/

that sometimes just ends up in silence and weird looks, like u dont really know the other person... dunno, the silence makes it somehow look worse to me!

Reply 4

cpj1987

15

Ah, yeah, maybe the silence thing won't work if you don't actually know the person very well, never been in that situation tbh.

Reply 5

Candy-Kills

OP

1

lol, i cant quote...

Reply 6

Speederson

I think it depends on who its with and what environment your in. so if your in a night club nothing needs to be said at all, so its all about the eyes. maybe if u can't think of anything good to say though don't say anything at all as silence is a better alternative. One i used yesterday was "i've been wanting to do that for ages" lol

Reply 7

Serendipity*

1

Candy-Kills

hi,

im average/maybe even good at gettin till the first kiss, but after it finishes, i never know what to say!! i think i spoiled some good moments by just saying somethin stupid like:

- woah, how come this happened?

or:

- hmm... strawberries...

or my most reacently worse one:

- i think i need to go to the toilet!

i just go blank and dunno what to say... some suggestions please!!!!! :confused:

Aww, if a guy said one of those phrases to me I'd just find it immensely cute. :biggrin:

Then again, not sure if every girl's like this. Why not just smile?
:smile:

Reply 8

Sausage

10

Say "I expected better" and then when you get a reaction shout "syke!"

Always goes down well :p:

Reply 9

Tyler Durden

17

"So... do you floss?"

Reply 10

PinkMobilePhone

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22

I honestly can't remember what first kisses are like lol. Haven't had one of those in over 6 years!

Try saying something like what 8urtay suggested - "that was amazing" - or something similar. That ought to get a decent enough reaction.

Reply 11

Dittoo

2

Just smile, and if theres an awkward silence, kiss her again.

Reply 12

welshprincess

1

There isn't really a right or wrong thing to say after a first kiss :smile:

I think after my 1st kiss with my current bf i was so surprised by the kiss that i was kinda just like "wow" and then he just kissed me again =] I guess it depends how the kiss goes. I think what you said after your kisses were cute don't worry about it too much, if my man had said one of those to me i'd be like "awww" and kiss him again :smile:

To be honest i think the kiss matters more than what you say afterwards so don't worry too much xx<3

Reply 13

Jelkin

17

^ Yup. A smile and another kiss is encouraging. Of course, then what after the second kiss? DILEMMA

Reply 14

domlague

1

'If the first is that good, I think we'd better order more champagne'? /we may be here a while/am gonna have to take abstinence training/you get the picture. Basically tell her it was good and follow it through with something edgy but lightly humourous.

- Hope that helps somehow :smile:

,

- me.

Reply 15

decoy

I've noticed I don't say much.
If it was **** I walk off and if it was good I just stand there like a little girl with a grin on my face letting out a little giggle.

They usually say something.

Reply 16

Adhsur

15

Smiling should be enough?

Reply 17

ice_cube

17

"mmmm" should be sufficient.

Reply 18

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Reply 19

ßlαcksωαn

17

Candy-Kills

hi,

im average/maybe even good at gettin till the first kiss, but after it finishes, i never know what to say!! i think i spoiled some good moments by just saying somethin stupid like:

- woah, how come this happened?

or:

- hmm... strawberries...

or my most reacently worse one:

- i think i need to go to the toilet!

i just go blank and dunno what to say... some suggestions please!!!!! :confused:

lol that made me laugh.
You could always say ooh you're a good kisser or that was nice or smile or do it again or move on or anything. Not something like "my socks are red".

what do you say right after first kiss? i never get it right!

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