About 2 months ago, this Portuguese guy joined my work. He's just moved here from Lisbon and is very good looking but at the time I wasn't really attracted to him.
Anyway, over the last 2 months this guy has really grown on me - he has a really sweet way about him, like if he's eating something he'll fall over himself to share whatever it is with me, he's always trying to make conversation and when I run into him in the office or outside in the street he always looks so nervous. We have been flirting quite a bit and the eye contact between us has been really intense. The other day I was working alone in a booth in our office and he followed me in there and sat down and started talking to me. He always seems to want to carry on the conversation after it's ended as well. On Friday, he came up to me and was like 'we should catch up.. for lunch, next week', as well.
Thing is, I full on like him now - and I'm not sure if this is him trying to make new friends in his brand new city or whether he's also interested in me romantically? I've tried to read his body language which has been kind of useful but I don't want to read too much into it and jump to conclusions which might not be true. Any help deciphering would be great!
Does this Portuguese guy at work like me or is he just being friendly? Watch
- 22-08-2016 21:39
- 22-08-2016 22:38
He most likely likes you in a romantic way, providing you yourself are attractive. After all, he is a male.
He has everything to lose in that he may embarrass himself because he - being the male - has to make the advances according to social dynamics and he wouldn't be completely sure you like him - unless he reads this post.
You have nothing to lose. All you need to do is explicitly be receptive to his advances and the rest will follow
- 22-08-2016 22:53
Without tooting my own horn too much, I do get told I'm attractive quite a lot but all of that is subjective...*
- 22-08-2016 22:58
Men like vadge. Dont be expecting flowers and delicious Portuguese cuisne with his family
- 23-08-2016 08:56
Well... I was only in it for the nandos chicken so maybe I should give up now.