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Confusing situation

Hello, please can this be kept annoymous because I know people on here and I don't really want them knowing this.

As you may have guessed, it's about a boy. He and I were very close, we talked all the time about anything and everything but then I don't know why but things have changed between us. Now, I'm the kind of person that needs to know why these things are happening and so I've been texting him rather a lot. (Probably a little too much because he wont reply.. well actually way too much) But it really is p****** me off quite a lot because he's offered no explanation for his sudden change of heart.
Anyway I don't know what to do, whether I should carry on trying to make him talk to me and explain what has happened or just let it be and try and forget about him even though it's hurting me so much :frown: He know's what he means to me and it just seems so out of character for him to be doing this.

If anyone has any thoughts on the matter I'd be very grateful

Reply 1

There's a number of possible reasons, his feelings might have changed (which sadly people's feelings do change). He could be busy and stressed out or he has no credit or other problems. Maybe give it a bit of time and see if he texts you.

Reply 2

If you like him that much, I say keep persisting and find out what's up. This would tear up anyone, so if need be, call his mobile from another phone or something and just get an explanation.

Reply 3

Were you texting him, even though he wasn't texting you back?

Reply 4

winniethepooh88
Were you texting him, even though he wasn't texting you back?


Yes :redface: Just asking what was up and if he was alright because I was worried about him.

Reply 5

He's probably p*ssed off with you texting him every 5 seconds.

Reply 6

Stop making efforts with him and wait for him to make an effort with u..

Hopefully I won't be jumped at for saying so.