Just thought i would post this on here to let it out a bit and to see if anyone could give me any advice, please.
Basically, my Mum's boyfriend has been cheating on my her. I once caught him with another woman a few years ago and my Mum went on to forgive him. Last week I caught him out with the same women again. He had not told my Mum he was with her and they were acting very much as if they were clever. After talking to people that know him I have found out it seems to be common knowledge that he has been seeing this women behind my Mum's back for years. I am sure that this is true too.
Do I tell her? I dont want to hurt her, deep down I think she knows that he is cheating on her. I dont know how to go about telling her if i do, I dont want her to feel as if everyone has been talking and laughing about it behind her back as I was with my Dad at the time when I caught him, which means he knows.
I also dont want to hurt my little brother as he is his Dad. My little brother is disabled so it is hard enough for my Mum as she gets little support from her boyfriend emotionally, physically or financially as he doesnt work and is an alcoholic. He has even gone through my drawers and stolen money from me. Also, if she does split with him i know she will be very upset and have to cope by herself when i move away to uni in september, which would make her feel even more lonely.
Ok, that was very badly structered and was a mess of thoughts, sorry.
Any advice would be appriciated as i am stuggling to live with both of them knowing what i do.
xx