Any one fancy anyone at work?

There's this guy at work...and well he fancy's me and I like him but only as as friend. He's always flirting with me and everytime I see him he hugs me and gives me a kiss on the cheek and does this with no one else at work! It's making me feel a bit awkward cos I don't know how to act around him now...maybe he thinks I like him too? But I don't, I don't mind being friends cos he's a wiked person, and he's leaving this week and I wanna stay in touch but don't want it to seem like I like him so I'm gonna wait for him to ask for my number (I'm pretty sure he will). What do you all think I should do? sorry if this seems like such a pointless thread :biggrin:

Reply 1

Firearm

Don't give him any real 'signs', but dont say to him 'theres no chance' because i assume he doesnt know you think he has a thing for you?

Reply 2

dh00001

say: hey i want to stay friends with you can we keep in touch

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

Firearm: thanks, I haven't given any signs atleast I don't think I have..I'm a naturally friendly person and I'm always smiley and giggly I hope he doesn't think that's a sign. And no he doesn't know overtly that I think that but I'm pretty sure he knows inside lol.

dh0001: I don't want to sound too forward if you know what I mean? He said one time I never invite him out as in clubbin so maybe I should tell him to come out one night..hence I NEED YOUR DAMN number! lol but hey if he wants mine that badly he'll ask right!? no? cos he's not a shy guy at all.

Reply 4

dh00001

i would say asking him somewhere is more forward but hey thats me.

Reply 5

pumpkin7

i've had something like this, this week at work.
lovely lad, only 19 (argh didn't know this.. he looks way older), and he invited me down brum last night, gave me his msn and his phone number... everso strange.
he is nice, but like, he's very up himself, and the fact that he's doing this and has a gf just makes him icky.

yeah... nothing to do with your post lol.