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confused about ex

hey new here! just needed some advice on problems with ex..

me and my ex broke up a couple of months ago..(he ended it due to ''family problems'') however around a week later i caught him with his ex girlfriend and im pretty sure it was her and couple of people i know have seen them together. i didnt mention it to him that i saw him..and so he thinks i don't know about this. we still kept in contact (even though it was mega hard to talk to him knowing that he was back with his ex) i dont know why i just thought there was no point in asking him because i know what i saw.

anyway..few months down the line now..and all of a sudden we seem to talk alot more..he rang me randomnly and we were on the phone for hours and have been for the past few days. is there a chance he's broken up with her..thing is i still really have feelings for him and even though i know he's been a jerk to me IF there was a chance we could still get back together- would i be a silly for getting back with him? what would you do if you were in my position?

sorry for the essay lol..thankyou for any replies! x
They are an ex for a reason, it does sound like family problems was just an excuse for going back to his ex.
Reply 2
I'd keep him out of my life totally. You don't sound like you are totally over him, while he looks like he may be more willing to carry on with his own agenda.

Perhaps if you don't see/talk to him for a few month, no matter how painful, you will be better in the long run. Getting back together mostly ends in heartache and the same old arguments and problems. You will both have changed so much even by now.

Sounds like he's a complete **** anyway, don't let him mess you around like this, so ignore him. :smile:
Reply 3
Oh BTW welcome to TSR, shame your first post is a sad one