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    I took a girl out for a meal and she was really nice and friendly and I thought there was a spark I guess... At the end I leant in to kiss her, and she pulled away and said she had to go.

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    Probably nervous
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    Guess she's not interested... :sad:
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    give up unless she's special,
    if she's special then you're buggered.
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    Was it the first date? For me the first date is too early for a kiss, the only exception being if I already knew the guy before we went out and was really into him. Some of us just need time to let feelings build up and will end up being pushed away if we're made to feel pressured into moving faster. If you still want her and are OK with taking things more slowly, explain this to her via text, and how you're willing to go at her pace and won't put pressure on her. I think she would be up for another date after that.

    If that's not your thing then I would suggest that you end it.
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    Maybe twas just your breath. Have you tried the new Colgate Herbal with Sage and Eucalyptus?
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    She had to go.


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    (Original post by Kendrik Lamar)
    Maybe twas just your breath. Have you tried the new Colgate Herbal with Sage and Eucalyptus?
    Lol'd hard

    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I took a girl out for a meal and she was really nice and friendly and I thought there was a spark I guess... At the end I leant in to kiss her, and she pulled away and said she had to go.

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    In all seriousness not all hope is lost but it's not a great sign. The best way to confirm is to go out again for a 2nd date. If she says yeah then shes still interested if no then you confirmed your assumption.
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    (Original post by Kendrik Lamar)
    Maybe twas just your breath. Have you tried the new Colgate Herbal with Sage and Eucalyptus?
    That sounds like a really good product, could you tell me more?
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    In my experience a girl who will not kiss on a first date just ain't that into you. Or is on the fence about you.

    follow up dates tend to lead to no kissing as well.

    I have a policy now:

    No kiss on first date = me no contact you after the date
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    Probably uncomfortable since it's the first date. I've had that experience with a suitor whom I liked, but never got the chance to be in a relationship with. Take it easy is what I can advice.
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    I have kissed on a first date and she still went cold on me. :dontknow:
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    GOLD DIGGER ALERT!!! SHE wanted that free dinner! :007:
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    You have to read the mood, there's a difference between someone being polite in a formal way on a debate and genuinely getting on, and if you genuinely get on then its worth trying a kiss but even so for a first date there's nothing wrong with just a hug and cheek kiss at the end. I think stuff like kissing at the end of a date should be something you don't think about, if things go well let it happen spontaneously, otherwise it ends up occupying your mind, making you nervous and leads to an awkward moment.

    In honesty though if a girl has outright pulled away and rejected a kiss then I would leave the ball in her court to contact you if she wants a second date. Yes you can find reasons like maybe she doesn't feel comfortable kissing on a first date or whatever but if she was really in to you she'd probably have gone along with it so honestly, it's more likely that she doesn't want to follow up. If you don't contact her see what happens, is she keen and messaging you to see what you are up to and keep contact going, hoping there will be another date attached, or is she going quiet (probably hoping you don't get back in touch).
 
 
 
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