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    I am an absolute mess and I don't know what to do. The last 3 years have been the worst for me. I've lost so much respect from everyone I know and I can't deal with it. I felt things were looking up for me this Summer- I thought I had made a new friend on here, but I lost her yesterday and now I feel as if I am back to square one. When will this nightmare I'm in end? It's killing me. I feel as if I'm about to give up and go into the closet for good. I'm no good to anyone and deep down, I do not want to accept this. The truth is, however, I've got no fight left in me. I feel weak and I have no hope for the future. I just do not know what to do.
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    I had no actual friends (just slightly chatty acquaintances) until university, mainly because I spent my entire secondary school life as an aggressive and unpleasant mess. I never focused, never achieved anything, and wasn't remotely liked by anyone.

    Today's situation couldn't be any more the opposite. Truth is, life's ups-and-downs are usually epochs rather than moments. Sometimes they oscillate quickly, other times you really need to steele yourself for a long winter. You need to keep your chin up, mate.
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    (Original post by Just a Bloke)
    I had no actual friends (just slightly chatty acquaintances) until university, mainly because I spent my entire secondary school life as an aggressive and unpleasant mess. I never focused, never achieved anything, and wasn't remotely liked by anyone.

    Today's situation couldn't be any more the opposite. Truth is, life's ups-and-downs are usually epochs rather than moments. Sometimes they oscillate quickly, other times you really need to steele yourself for a long winter. You need to keep your chin up, mate.
    I've tried, but the truth is, I'm just too demoralised.
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    (Original post by Thegoodapple)
    I am an absolute mess and I don't know what to do. The last 3 years have been the worst for me. I've lost so much respect from everyone I know and I can't deal with it. I felt things were looking up for me this Summer- I thought I had made a new friend on here, but I lost her yesterday and now I feel as if I am back to square one. When will this nightmare I'm in end? It's killing me. I feel as if I'm about to give up and go into the closet for good. I'm no good to anyone and deep down, I do not want to accept this. The truth is, however, I've got no fight left in me. I feel weak and I have no hope for the future. I just do not know what to do.
    This too will pass.
    Even when you have no hope for the future just by living and holding on time will pass,the future will come and things will get better. Even when youake mistakes and think you're 3 steps back you really aarent because you have a new exoerience- yes painful but something you can learn and build from. Defo suggest breaking down your problems and figuring out how to tackle them all individually- ask for advice and lnow that at least at rock bottom things cant get worse-the only way is up. Hang in there and most of all remember this too shall pass
 
 
 
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