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    I'm male and i like a girl from university who i have spoken f2f before but not a lot. Recently I started messaging her on fb and got to know more about her. But this month ive only messaged her twice which is terrible.

    I wanna know how do guys messages girls they are interested every few days?

    Is it as easy as saying "Hi" or "Hey" every other day?

    The girl Im chatting to seems a bit shy, so i feel as though i have to put in more effort atm with starting our chats.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I'm male and i like a girl from university who i have spoken f2f before but not a lot. Recently I started messaging her on fb and got to know more about her. But this month ive only messaged her twice which is terrible.

    I wanna know how do guys messages girls they are interested every few days?

    Is it as easy as saying "Hi" or "Hey" every other day?

    The girl Im chatting to seems a bit shy, so i feel as though i have to put in more effort atm with starting our chats.
    It's difficult because okay, you're only messaging them twice in a month but they're also giving nothing back, granted you say she's shy though.

    How did you meet her? What do you have in common?
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    No, I don't need any advice, thanks.
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    It's difficult because okay, you're only messaging them twice in a month but they're also giving nothing back, granted you say she's shy though.

    How did you meet her? What do you have in common?
    At uni we do the same course and we're both from the same area and we are both from the same ethnic background.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I'm male and i like a girl from university who i have spoken f2f before but not a lot. Recently I started messaging her on fb and got to know more about her. But this month ive only messaged her twice which is terrible.

    I wanna know how do guys messages girls they are interested every few days?

    Is it as easy as saying "Hi" or "Hey" every other day?

    The girl Im chatting to seems a bit shy, so i feel as though i have to put in more effort atm with starting our chats.
    I'm female.. and personally id advise you to just be yourself.. find some common grounds, maybe even ask her to meet? or just ask generally what she is up to then show interest in what she has to say! Good Luck, but remember BE YOURSELF.

    If after a while it seems as if it's a one sided conversation then you'll know for yourself.. don't admit to liking her straight away.. but after a while throw some hints so you see where you stand
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    if you just keep saying "hi", I'd personally stop responding to you. It gets so boring after a while.
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    Communicate in real life. The worst thing you can do is awkwardly make eye contact irl, rush home, fling open your laptop and say 'hey'.
 
 
 
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