i cant cope any more

im going crazy, i feel so down right now and its all because of my mum. ahhh seriosuly. i cant cope. she KEEPS going o nat me. right, the other night i think my drink was spiked. i came home and was basically comatosed (sp?) and she thought she could smell **** loads of alcohol on me, fair enough i had been drinking, but not to excess, i only recall buying 2 drinks while out, my friends say when they offered to buy me a drink, i sed no. so now my mum thinks im a total binge dirnker and sed she always smells alcohol in my room which is so not true, if anything it is hairspray, i have never ad alcohol in my room so its obv just the hair spray. she says ive lost my soul because when i go out i just drink to excess (which isnt true) she says i need to find some proper friends (my friends ARE proper friends) who enjoy things like the theatre. she says ive got no direction (even tho im a uni student but im on my summer hols now) she says i dont do exercise and when she was my age she was always goign swimming etc. how normal is it for uni students to do not much in the day on their summer hols (i work weekends) and go out occasionally? she says i mope about the house (i do not mope, just when i see her i get depressed becxause she consstantly naggs)
what can i do?? seriosuly i feel like crying, i dont know what she thinks i am but im not half as bad as she thinks. shes on the phone to her m8 now telling her how awful ive 'become' and its like...ahhhhhh
sorry but i had to get that out, i just dont know what to do, my family is important to me, and id b totally lost without them, i just dont know what to do.

Reply 1

generalebriety

Print off that post and show it to her. Chances are she's never taken the chance to hear your side of it. Sigh, another family problem that could be so easily solved by communication.

Reply 2

username47781

Agreed talk to her when you are both calm.

Reply 3

marshall123

I think she is just trying to look out for you but obviously her approach seems to be wrong in your eyes...

Just talk to her when both of you are calm and explain to her that you are not a binge drinker and that you do have the occasional drinks, but being over 18 (i'm assuming you are, sorry if i'm wrong) you are entitled to...