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    I am an 18yr male, I just had my first sex twith a girl who is my age , I was really looking forward to the sex but when we were doing it , i feel kinda boring, and I couldn't get full erection by just looking at her body . I mean like when I watch porn I get full erection really quick. Also I feel a disgusted after sex. I was wondering if I am gay but I have tested out by watching porn that I am heterosexual. So what the hell is wrong with, why do I feel boring during real sex ?
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    You're probably so used to watching porn and think it's going to be like that when it's really not.

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    Probably not, but you likely have a porn addiction.

    Stop shaking your tree for a month and see what happens.
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    (Original post by lifeiscool)
    I am an 18yr male, I just had my first sex twith a girl who is my age , I was really looking forward to the sex but when we were doing it , i feel kinda boring, and I couldn't get full erection by just looking at her body . I mean like when I watch porn I get full erection really quick. Also I feel a disgusted after sex. I was wondering if I am gay but I have tested out by watching porn that I am heterosexual. So what the hell is wrong with, why do I feel boring during real sex ?
    Sounds like you're putting a lot of pressure on yourself. Relax and find the right person and you will be fine. I wouldn't jump to any conclusions, if you're attracted to women you're straight, and if you're attracted to men you're gay.

    Both are absolutely fine but only you know the answer.
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    (Original post by lifeiscool)
    I am an 18yr male, I just had my first sex twith a girl who is my age , I was really looking forward to the sex but when we were doing it , i feel kinda boring, and I couldn't get full erection by just looking at her body . I mean like when I watch porn I get full erection really quick. Also I feel a disgusted after sex. I was wondering if I am gay but I have tested out by watching porn that I am heterosexual. So what the hell is wrong with, why do I feel boring during real sex ?
    1. Porn is a bad representation of real sex
    2. Maybe you don't fancy the girl.
    3. You don't always erect or have an orgasm everytime
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    Only you will know if you are gay.
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    As others have stated you are watching too much porn and probably have been for a long period of time. Honestly best thing to do is to cut down the amount of porn you watch or just stop all together if you can do so. The reason behind this is porn creates unrealistic sex scenarios and it is not like real life sex. So after a long time your brain gets used to the idea that porn is how sex is in real life and you expect women to have big firm breasts etc. In addition the sexual positions in porn can be crazy sometimes lol which in reality a woman wouldn't find enjoyable.

    Have a read of this article which explains it better: http://www.mancunianmatters.co.uk/co...-sex-therapist
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    time to nofap boyo
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    (Original post by lifeiscool)
    i am an 18yr male, i just had my first sex twith a girl who is my age , i was really looking forward to the sex but when we were doing it , i feel kinda boring, and i couldn't get full erection by just looking at her body . I mean like when i watch porn i get full erection really quick. Also i feel a disgusted after sex. I was wondering if i am gay but i have tested out by watching porn that i am heterosexual. So what the hell is wrong with, why do i feel boring during real sex ?
    sex in real life is nothing like porn so stop looking for the same reactions as you do in the videos and take advantage of the beauty female you have in front of you !
 
 
 
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