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I Had this exact situation when i went out with a girl in year 10. She had a friend who liked her alot but she didn't and to be polite she was always nice to him..in my opinion abit too nice. Speak to your boyfriend about her and see what he makes of it. If he tells you he has no feelings for her then you have nothing to worry about however if its the opposite you really need to consider sorting it out. I personally think its all about trust, if you can trust your bf to talk to other girls and however much they flirt he is not tempted then its kool.
Just chat to him and see what he thinks - Best way !!
Just chat to him and see what he thinks - Best way !!
I kinda had a similar problem. An old friend of mine went out with my boyfriend a couple of years before I did. It was only a week. But it finished.
Anyway When I got with him, she decided she wanted him. Orginally she never said/did anything in front of me, only to him and my best mate. She usually claimed to be "drunk" but this wasn't always the case.
Final straw came when she was running her hands up my boyfriends leg, in my house. I could have killed her. Lucky my friend distracted her attention, and my boyfriend moved away from her.
Ex's and friends who fancied your boyfriend are never good. I'm not sure what you can do about it. Possibly talk to him about it, see what he thinks.
Best of luck
Anyway When I got with him, she decided she wanted him. Orginally she never said/did anything in front of me, only to him and my best mate. She usually claimed to be "drunk" but this wasn't always the case.
Final straw came when she was running her hands up my boyfriends leg, in my house. I could have killed her. Lucky my friend distracted her attention, and my boyfriend moved away from her.
Ex's and friends who fancied your boyfriend are never good. I'm not sure what you can do about it. Possibly talk to him about it, see what he thinks.
Best of luck
Cheers for the replies!
Yeah that's how I feel. I just hope it doesn't get to that stage. She's always been slagging me off to him so that's kinda why I went on Saturday (as bad as it sounds) to kinda mark my territory. He was great, he was talking about how we've been going out a year and stuff so I don't not trust him. I just don't trust her! With reason haha!
There's definitely nothing for her there, I'm 100% sure. Otherwise it would have happened years ago (known each other from high school and they're now 20)
Bf asked me if I wanted to come (cause he found out I knew the other girl going) and I was like "She'd be raging if I came" and he was like yeah I should go myself lol. Don't think he realised how bad it sounded.
Yeah that's how I feel. I just hope it doesn't get to that stage. She's always been slagging me off to him so that's kinda why I went on Saturday (as bad as it sounds) to kinda mark my territory. He was great, he was talking about how we've been going out a year and stuff so I don't not trust him. I just don't trust her! With reason haha!
There's definitely nothing for her there, I'm 100% sure. Otherwise it would have happened years ago (known each other from high school and they're now 20)
Bf asked me if I wanted to come (cause he found out I knew the other girl going) and I was like "She'd be raging if I came" and he was like yeah I should go myself lol. Don't think he realised how bad it sounded.
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