The Student Room Group
Reply 1
"Hello!"

They will probably then say pardon.

You repeat, leaning closer: "Hi! I'm [insert name]."

Then they will then tell you their name.

Smile a bit. Dance a bit. Judge level of awkwardness.
Then, ermm, make some comment about the current music playing?
Dunno, clubs aren't exactly the best place for conversation.
Reply 2
Just work your way into dancing with them for a bit, and when you get the chance (at the end of a song maybe), lean in and ask if they'd like a drink.
Reply 3
brak3n
"Hello!"

They will probably then say pardon.

You repeat, leaning closer: "Hi! I'm [insert name]."

Then they will then tell you their name.

Smile a bit. Dance a bit. Judge level of awkwardness.
Then, ermm, make some comment about the current music playing?
Dunno, clubs aren't exactly the best place for conversation.


that is sooo cheesy and emarassing, lol!
Reply 4
Dulac84
that is sooo cheesy and emarassing, lol!


Hi is the best line used. better than all the *breaks ice at girls feet* "Haha now i've broken the ice why don't we get you a drink" hooey.
Reply 5
Tap her on the shoulder then run off when she looks round.
Reply 6
JayB124
Hi is the best line used. better than all the *breaks ice at girls feet* "Haha now i've broken the ice why don't we get you a drink" hooey.


That actually sounds like a good one!

But buying them alcohol is always good.
you must open every girl with this:

Girl you must have fallen from heaven. I guess that's how you messed up your face.
Dittoo
What's the first thing/best thing to say, like when introducing yourself in a club? Or to get conversation started. And girls, your POV too :smile:

I've never actually approached a girl in a club, and i cant be the only one. If i dance/get off with someone, its usually just because theyre next to me, and you dont really introduce yourself...if ya get me.


http://youtube.com/watch?v=72DQxv03ySk

This guy will teach you everything you need to know about pickig up girls :biggrin:.
Reply 9
Lol think you should try telling them what drink your having as a laugh
Like babez go and get me a pint of fosters
wonder if anyone actually does that
I suppose I will have to one day must be worth a go :P
A guy on crutches once asked me if I'd let the cripple sit down - made me laugh.... slick conversation and a few vodkas later he was the best kiss of my life. Mr Xtra special for sure. I'm not entirely sure if the "You get off with Cripples!!!" jibes from my mates was worth it but hey ho.

Just don't come across as a sleeze, make random conversation and don't be overly obvious that you just want a shag
Reply 11
im a confident guy and its still a difficult thing to do. introduce me to a girl and i dont even have to think, i can talk for days but i have to force myself to approach girls. best way is to start with a bit of humour if you can.
try anything and everything

but know when to take a hike
squirky
That actually sounds like a good one!

But buying them alcohol is always good.


It has a good sucess rate
JayB124
It has a good sucess rate


No it doesn't.
Boys... PM me and I'll help you all out - I promise :p:
Reply 16
Someone once said to me:
"How much does a polar bear weigh?
Enough to break the ice."
And then he tried to shake my hand

Never use this :p:
Never use this either, can I test your hard drive out with my floppy, some guy I know got a slap for this.
Rock Fan
Never use this either, can I test your hard drive out with my floppy, some guy I know got a slap for this.


He should've got three; one for being a nob, two for being lewd and three for using a computer joke on a girl.
Its simple:Approach girls that show some signs that they want to be approached by you.Like eye contact,smiles,body language.If your sure then just go and say Hi,don't be pervy but confident,funny and flirty. :wink: