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    Anyone got any general tips/advice for talking to girls and how to get them interested?
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    Just talk to them like you would a friend, but also flirt. No need to do anything specific, "being yourself" really is the best option.
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    Simple, just be yourself and don't pretend to be something you are not.
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    As above, really.

    And please don't come across as desparate. It's obvious.
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    Drop something in front of them and walk away, they'll call after you to give what you dropped back to you and then you have a conversation about the weather and let it escalate from there


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    Drop something in front of them and walk away, they'll call after you to give what you dropped back to you and then you have a conversation about the weather and let it escalate from there


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    Opening up with a weather pitch? I'm unsure about this unless she's studying Geography :boring:
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    As mentioned before, just be yourself, try to take in interest in them but don't come across as too desperate or harass them. Also better to talk to them face to face than online as then you will get your responses much more quickly & it's much more personal. Show positive body, language, be confident & friendly, & know when to stop speaking, conversation should flow ideally. Best of luck, you should have some success if you keep these in mind but it also depends if the girl is interested in you/friendly. If a girl doesn't react positively then just move on & don't get too hung about it!
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    Do not be yourself. And make an effort to be something you're not.

    Why do people always suggest otherwise? Being himself is clearly not working for him
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    Humour is very powerful. You can laugh a girl in to bed.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Anyone got any general tips/advice for talking to girls and how to get them interested?
    -be confident
    -don't use a pickup line just find a conversation and slide in (failing that ask for the time was one I'd use then complain about my tag heuer not working)
    -mix some humour in there but some smart stuff as well
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    Don't know about you guys but being myself isn't going to do much good😂 im terrible at talking to girls, im literally so shy its embarrassing!
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    As mentioned before, just be yourself, talk to a girl how you would talk to a friend.

    Good luck!
 
 
 
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