ache after kissing

(It's very important for me to post as anonymous as my bf checks these boards and I wouldn't like him to know).

While I was kissing my bf for the first time - my lips ached me - but not in the meaning of 'ache' - but like in a way - if u would split a acid liquid on it... I though that it's maybe, cuz my lips and generally my skin around me lips were dry - cuz I was sunbathing lately etc.. so I though 'ok'.
But last time - On Monday it also happened but it wasnt that painful. Anyway as we were kissing more etc.. and it was aching me (but maybe I didnt notice that pain as much as first time - maybe I simply got used to it or something)
and when we were going back, he stopped looked at me and told: "ohh my, you have red circles around your lips and a bit upper" and I joked that I hope that it will go away as I will be back home, that my mum won't see etc..
anyway, it wasnt THAT red, but it was noticeable
and now - today after 3 days after Monday
I woke up this morning and my skin on my chin and up my lips plus my lips are very dried !That much that some skin is going out of it
NOT THAT MUCH but it does and when I looked in the mirror it really is....
and I am 100% sure that it is due to kissing...
He had a little bit of subble ? - thats how it called in english I guess... but not like not shaved, but it was noticeable... although I dont know would it cause all that ?! Maybe it's just some subtances in his slaver that I am allergic to ?
Anyway, I had never read/heard about such things after kissing, so I was wondering is it normal? Have u ever heard of something like this? Or maybe u had something simillar? May I add that it's quite scarry... as I am not allergic to anything, and I am quite healthy (I think) so it's like "argg"

Reply 1

lilac!!

i suggest seeing a doctor

Reply 2

grace

nah it just sounds like stubble rash, i once got it so badly that the skin on my chin peeled off and scabbed over :s-smilie:

just make him close-shave, or be less full-on with your kissing. also make sure you moisturise your face.

Reply 3

billbonesknowswhatimean

Anonymous

(It's very important for me to post as anonymous as my bf checks these boards and I wouldn't like him to know)

brilliant

Anonymous

..and when we were going back, he stopped looked at me and told: "ohh my, you have red circles around your lips and a bit upper" and I joked that I hope that it will go away as I will be back home, that my mum won't see etc..

lets hope he's no poirot

Reply 4

Seoid

His stubble is irritating your skin. Simple.

Reply 5

Anonymous #1

are u sure that this is the problem? and it's not more serious? Like the kissing disease - mono'something ?! I am really afraid... Do u think that if I tell him to shave more deeply it will go away ?

yeah buy him a mach3

Kissing disease is somthing to do with your glands, it's called that because it can only be passed on through close contact such as kissing.

I think you're probably over-reacting. It's just too much of a good thing (don't I sound bitter...)