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...in my dreams.

At first I only had one every few months or so. Now they're closer together -I've had two in the past week.

In every dream its a different guy, and it always feels really exciting and reckless. I'm always aware that I'm cheating and I don't care. I only ever kiss them, nothing more.

When I wake up I feel so guilty for hours afterwards - I've gone out with my boyfriend for two years now and I really love him. I have never actually cheated on him and I never will.

Does anyone know what this might mean?
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Why feel guilty about dreams? You can't really control them and they are not your fault.

Dreams don't mean anything, no hocus pocus involved. Forget about them. No one will know and they won't impact your life in any other way.
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its just a dream
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forget it.
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its a dream... at the end of the day, its u that chooses to cheat, your dream has nothing to do with it.
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I know...I keep telling myself that but I still feel guilty!

Surely if you're having a recurring dream it has to have some kind of hidden meaning?
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no, its all lies
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(Original post by Mishael)
...in my dreams.

At first I only had one every few months or so. Now they're closer together -I've had two in the past week.

In every dream its a different guy, and it always feels really exciting and reckless. I'm always aware that I'm cheating and I don't care. I only ever kiss them, nothing more.

When I wake up I feel so guilty for hours afterwards - I've gone out with my boyfriend for two years now and I really love him. I have never actually cheated on him and I never will.

Does anyone know what this might mean?
Don't worry about that. Its quite funny
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I know...I keep telling myself that but I still feel guilty!

Surely if you're having a recurring dream it has to have some kind of hidden meaning?
ask freud!
although he said a broken candle stick means a man is worried about impotence - so i wouldnt take too much notice of the hidden meanings in dreams if i were you
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not necessarily... i die in my dreams all the time... so im guna die... no time soon i hope lol
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Surely if you're having a recurring dream it has to have some kind of hidden meaning?
It probably means you're just kidding yourself when you think you're in love with him. :rolleyes:
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ask freud!
although he said a broken candle stick means a man is worried about impotence - so i wouldnt take too much notice of the hidden meanings in dreams if i were you
LOL
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ask freud!
although he said a broken candle stick means a man is worried about impotence - so i wouldnt take too much notice of the hidden meanings in dreams if i were you
Haha, I keep meaning to buy a book about him. Was there anything that he didn't have a sexual reference to?
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ask freud!
although he said a broken candle stick means a man is worried about impotence - so i wouldnt take too much notice of the hidden meanings in dreams if i were you
Whatever you do - don't ask any Freudians - You'll be scarred for the rest of your life!
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LOL
i used that example in my psychology exam for AO2
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Freud cracks me up... dirty old man
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Dreams fon't mean any thing. For example a couple of months ago I had a dream that aliens invaded Earth and I lead a couter attack against them (for some reason they had no weapons but still managed to take control - we attacked them with rulers, etc). Now I don't think that this is about to happen, do you? lol :rolleyes:
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Don't worry, just lie back and enjoy yourself.
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(Original post by Mishael)
...in my dreams.

At first I only had one every few months or so. Now they're closer together -I've had two in the past week.

In every dream its a different guy, and it always feels really exciting and reckless. I'm always aware that I'm cheating and I don't care. I only ever kiss them, nothing more.

When I wake up I feel so guilty for hours afterwards - I've gone out with my boyfriend for two years now and I really love him. I have never actually cheated on him and I never will.

Does anyone know what this might mean?

i girl, with a boyfriend, told me she was having dreams about me haing sex with her, its pretty shocking, like what are ya sopposed to do, go over and f*** her and then have her boyfriend come after you.

although, they say dreams are what a person most desires.

Mod Expression - Watch the language please. Post amended to remove profanity
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(Original post by Mishael)
...in my dreams.

At first I only had one every few months or so. Now they're closer together -I've had two in the past week.

In every dream its a different guy, and it always feels really exciting and reckless. I'm always aware that I'm cheating and I don't care. I only ever kiss them, nothing more.

When I wake up I feel so guilty for hours afterwards - I've gone out with my boyfriend for two years now and I really love him. I have never actually cheated on him and I never will.

Does anyone know what this might mean?
The thing about dream interpretation is that it's not always the stuff that you DO that's important. I suspect that it's not the kissing another guy part, but the fact that it feels exciting and reckless that's important in your dream. If you feel bored with your life, then the kissing could symbolise that rather than meaning anything about your relationship. The fact that it's a different guy could suggest a need for variety in your life, perhaps?
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