Um embarassing sex problem....

Well its this thing. Every time that I use a vibrator or any other sex toy for orgasm and etc I have this horrible desire to pee :redface:

. I don't know why does it happen but it does at most times.Now I fear that maybe sometime I will end up doing so when I am with someone and the very thought of it makes me cringe. Why is it that this horribly embarrassing thing happens to me?Has it happened to anyone else? :frown:

Reply 1

Viridis

10

Have you tried going to the toilet before you use any toy?

Reply 2

Kate.

15

G-spot stimulation often produces a feeling similar to wanting to pee.

Either that, or your bladder is full and you're pressing on it :P

Reply 3

username43584

8

I get this too, especially if I'm aroused but don't actually come. Usually if I try to go to the toilet I actually can't.

I've heard that it can be to do with female ejaculation rather than needing to go to the toilet. Most women repress the urge because they think they're going to wet themselves and so never experience ejaculation. Has anyone actually experienced this or is it *******s?

Reply 4

figureeight

11

Kate.

G-spot stimulation often produces a feeling similar to wanting to pee.

Either that, or your bladder is full and you're pressing on it :P

These are linked.

G-spot stimulation pushes on the bladder (opening especially) and this causes the feeling of needing to go to the toilet.

And you don't need a full bladder for it to happen either :eek:

Reply 5

Anonymous #1

OP

Yeah I did go to the toilet :P. More often than not its just the feeling of peeing or in a very horrifying case a tiny amount did come out which is enough to embarrass me when I am with someone. :redface:

Reply 6

blackfish

7

like it has been suggested in the other post it could be the possibility of female ejaculation if thats how you are describing it :p:

Reply 7

grace

15

becca2389

I get this too, especially if I'm aroused but don't actually come. Usually if I try to go to the toilet I actually can't.

I've heard that it can be to do with female ejaculation rather than needing to go to the toilet. Most women repress the urge because they think they're going to wet themselves and so never experience ejaculation. Has anyone actually experienced this or is it *******s?

i always thought it was a myth.

then i spent a long night in with my man in a soundproof hotel room in Prague.

one thing's for sure - it ain't no myth :p:

Reply 8

adamwilkinson

To the OP, next time your using your toys put a towel down and if you get the feeling keep going and see what happens. Absolutely nothing to be embarrased about.

Reply 9

Anonymous #2

Oh, I get this. Once, I kept going to see what would happen, and I actually did pee myself. It wasnt ejaculation or anything like that, it was pee. It happens everytime I orgasm, even if I go to the toilet before. Therefore, I can never orgasm with my boyfriend.
It sucks.

Reply 10

Segat1

16

Meh, so long as you get off, who cares? It's normal!!

Reply 11

Anonymous #2

I'm pretty sure it isnt normal to wet yourself at every orgasm!

Reply 12

HaNzY

2

don't worry.i sometimes really need to pee but when i try, i can't. and there has been 2 times when my boyfriends made me cum and i've had a huge wet patch on the back of my trousers!its not as embarrassing as i thought it would be and i'm not too worried about it as it doesn't happen often (usually when i'm at his...strange!) lolz. so i wouldn't worry, it won't happen all the time.

Reply 13

Clarence

14

Female Ejaculation is very rare but it does happen. I felt like this but then i kept going to see what would happen and it felt like i was peeing but it wasn't pee..

Reply 14

soup_dragon87

becca2389

I get this too, especially if I'm aroused but don't actually come. Usually if I try to go to the toilet I actually can't.

I've heard that it can be to do with female ejaculation rather than needing to go to the toilet. Most women repress the urge because they think they're going to wet themselves and so never experience ejaculation. Has anyone actually experienced this or is it *******s?

The mystery of the female orgasm (or lack of) is finally solved. :wink:

Reply 15

Jelkin

17

Apparently female ejaculate does actually contain pee some of the time. Though they're not -actually- sure if it's urine or some other mystery substance.

Reply 16

Sorani

16

Female Ejaculation is very rare but it does happen

I never knew it was rare for ages. I'd been able to do it, and control it, since I was about 13 (picked up through masturbation) and it really doesn't take any effort for me to force it. I was quite blown away when I was told it wasn't common.

As for the peeing feeling, I always get that feeling after sex but I nearly always actually need to go to the toilet. It is quite strange.

Reply 17

Jelkin

17

Sorani

As for the peeing feeling, I always get that feeling after sex but I nearly always actually need to go to the toilet. It is quite strange.

Good for you - it'll help protect you from cystitis :biggrin:

P.S. Where on earth are your sig quotes from?!?!? Is there another MI game I don't know about or did they make a related porno?

Reply 18

Toiletpaper8

13

Although in no way an 'expert' in the field of female orgasms, i'm sure that what you're experiencing is perfectly normal, after reading what everyone else has put.

If you're still unsure, then why not ask a doctor? I'm sure that will help :smile:

Reply 19

Toiletpaper8

13

I mean it'll put your mind at rest :wink:

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