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    I feel bad having to even do this but I'm so stuck...

    My bf and I have been going out for about 4 months now, but I feel things have already started to go downhill. He's not the most romantic type of person, which is absolutely fine don't get me wrong, but at the start he was more flirty etc.

    One night I was out and he messaged me asking if it would be okay for him to meet up with his ex girlfriend, on a friendly basis. It upset me, and I sarcastically said "yes that's fine", so he knew that I wasn't happy. (He didn't end up meeting her).

    I went to bed about 5-10 minutes after I got the message and just lay there feeling pretty low and kind of emotionless.

    Everything was fine since then but he's started liking her Instagram photos again, but he can't seem to like mine I know it isn't a big deal if I don't get a 'like' (I sound so shallow!) but I just feel it's strange, what does everyone think?

    I keep taking my anger out on everyone else, shouting and swearing which isn't right, Mum tells me that he's making me miserable and I broke down in tears. I was going to go to a boarding college for the 2nd year of A Levels but decided not to JUST so that I could see my bf more, however he didn't seem to care whether I stayed or whether I went.

    I seem so negative towards him, but he has done many nice things for me too; he's helped me with my anxiety towards food by cooking and showing me what's healthy etc, and I trust him 100% not to cheat on me, I'm just finding it difficult to know where to go from here. I've messaged him about it, he said "can we talk face to face" but when I see him we never do..
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    Doesn't sound like it will end well lol. He's probably not that into you. You can tell when someone doesn't love you and it seems like you can tell already.Have you talked to him about any of this yet?
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    yeah sorry to break it to you but it really does sound like he wants to go back to his ex.
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    I feel bad having to even do this but I'm so stuck...

    My bf and I have been going out for about 4 months now, but I feel things have already started to go downhill. He's not the most romantic type of person, which is absolutely fine don't get me wrong, but at the start he was more flirty etc.

    One night I was out and he messaged me asking if it would be okay for him to meet up with his ex girlfriend, on a friendly basis. It upset me, and I sarcastically said "yes that's fine", so he knew that I wasn't happy. (He didn't end up meeting her).

    I went to bed about 5-10 minutes after I got the message and just lay there feeling pretty low and kind of emotionless.

    Everything was fine since then but he's started liking her Instagram photos again, but he can't seem to like mine I know it isn't a big deal if I don't get a 'like' (I sound so shallow!) but I just feel it's strange, what does everyone think?

    I keep taking my anger out on everyone else, shouting and swearing which isn't right, Mum tells me that he's making me miserable and I broke down in tears. I was going to go to a boarding college for the 2nd year of A Levels but decided not to JUST so that I could see my bf more, however he didn't seem to care whether I stayed or whether I went.

    I seem so negative towards him, but he has done many nice things for me too; he's helped me with my anxiety towards food by cooking and showing me what's healthy etc, and I trust him 100% not to cheat on me, I'm just finding it difficult to know where to go from here. I've messaged him about it, he said "can we talk face to face" but when I see him we never do..
    " I was going to go to a boarding college for the 2nd year of A Levels but decided not to JUST so that I could see my bf more" haha you can't be serious
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    I know, I know it was a stupid thing to do

    (Original post by RelucBeam)
    " I was going to go to a boarding college for the 2nd year of A Levels but decided not to JUST so that I could see my bf more" haha you can't be serious
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    Yeah, I'm going to have to do the right thing when I next see him
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    yeah sorry to break it to you but it really does sound like he wants to go back to his ex.
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    I need to save myself the embarrassment of a terrible ending, but no I haven't talked to him because I haven't seen him for a while and he always asks if we can talk face to face about things, although we never end up talking about stuff :/

    (Original post by ChickenMadness)
    Doesn't sound like it will end well lol. He's probably not that into you. You can tell when someone doesn't love you and it seems like you can tell already.Have you talked to him about any of this yet?
 
 
 
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