The Student Room Group
Reply 1
So the problem is what?

You lack confidence? You're emotionally still attached and/or scarred and/or undermined by your ex?
Just kiss her dude - if you're fine after the first kiss then just get it over with!!
Just kiss her. Kiss her on the cheek (which even a friend would do, so you can't get shot down) and then go for a kiss on the lips.

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Reply 4
Do it! Do it! :smile:
Everyone gets a bit nervous before the first kiss with someone new. I agree with randomgirl, kiss her on the cheek and then head for the lips! It would also help if you worked out what it is that scares you.